In Search Of A Long Term Relationship!, gf / bf

Yes i am so tired of being single!

Any other out there that feel the same?

I really need to feel loved, to wake up next the one you love, i miss the touch of soft skinn and wet lips!

I agree on you with that... Kinda hard to find someone who is REAL tho. seemed like everyone just want to play around.. WHERE ARE THE REAL GUYS HERE

I am here

So you are also tierd of being alone? Me too (group hug)

Hmm, Idé for the page, be able to click on a profile here and be directed to that person's profile on ts-dating.com.

Cos i can't find you kailani904, since one can't search by name on the "main" page.

But to all, if you want to contact me, MSN: Cyalume@spray.se (webcam) or search on "male's from Sweden" in the search meny, my name is Cyalume.

And to all of you people that are planing to post a reply in this thread please add your contact info, or what your name is on the "main" page and from witch country you are from so one can look you up

I'm real enough, (as I've tried to make painfully obvious in my profile). Lord knows I've tried the direct approach with not much luck. Most of the time my emails went unanswered and for the rare few that did reply, they weren't interested. It seems like the girls on here (and I don't mean escorts) only go for guys that have good looks or money to burn. I'm done being nice, because I always finish last. Yeah I'm cynical... 7 years of this on the internet will do that to you too. I guess it doesn't help that on every dating site, girls outnumber guys by the thousands. No wonder they can't find us real guys.. they're too busy wasting their time with badboys (and probably liking it too).

I feel the same way i want a ltr as well.. ive been talking to someone and i want to be with her but she is half way around the world what should i do?

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Hi all,,,,,,, a big YES to all, I too have been online a long time, not 7 years yet, but a strong 4+ for sure. I chat or try to chat both TS and GG women. And YES again, I do, but chat electroniclly mostly. Maybe only 15 women have I ever met face to face. You might be surprised to know that for some the lying doesn't stop here, lol
I laugh now but it sure is disconcerting ( read pissed off) to go through a bunch of online chat, over several mts even, agree to meet and whamo---who's this then, I say when we meet.
As I'm certain you all know, there is a VAST difference between a CD and a TS girl.
I've nothing against CD's or any type of person, but 1 is not the other.
sorry this goes long---my main point is this : the internet, being basically an announymous media, offers the perfect venue for the truth to be shared. There's no reason to hide behind a wall of lies---how totally shallw is that, right ?? The odds of accidently meeting someone from here are incredible.
This 'net' is the 1st new form of human communication since TV, and it is being near completely ignored by the vast majority of those who utilize it.
Finally, what's worst of all, is that there is NO communication taking place when all said is untrue. I wish many more peeps would just try being truthful, the truth, does indeed set us all free.........

Go to her on a vacation

Ya... I'm also too tired being lonely and hoping to find a shoulder which i can lean on...
Is LTR really that difficult for transsexuals? Especially like myself, not as pretty as many transsexual sisters out there....
Really feeling sad....

LTR???. . . . How long that will be? or how we will measure to consider it as long? mmmm...Sister Sandy never compare your self to anyone so that you wont feel bad who you are. You dont need to look for him cos he never exist, agree?. . . . cos Mr. perfect dreamboy is just a fantasy and thats the reason why you are getting tired and even lonely. Trust me that word LTR is not true to mankind cos everything that has a beginning there is an end but you dont have to look forward for that end cos it will happen anytime, all you need to do is to enjoy and make the most out of it every single moment while you are there and once it's gone. . . its really gone.

Anyway you are not alone. . . . being alone and being alone is a good thing cos you still have the chance to choose which one is best for you. . . . hahahaha sorry to those who got no more chance then. . .

cheers!

Ouch! There's some disillusionment in some of these replies - so sorry to see that.

I'm sure an LTR is possible (I hope the R that I'm in turns out to be LT, so far so good). Of course, it's a 2-way street...both parties need to be committed to it.

As for finding someone, yeah it's tough...and the 'net is the only practical way to reach out around the world for most of us. Remember, though, that pretty much everyone is going to portray themselves positively and this isn't necessarily out of malevolent deceit.

For example, pretty much everyone thinks they do a good job, or have an above average intelligence etc.. It's *hard* to recognise ones own shortcomings, so nobody is going to go on the 'net and say "well yeah, I just see you as a walking ATM" or whatever. And, of course, because most of us have had bad experiences in the past (whatever your gender), that can make building trust difficult.

In my experience, I would say trust your instincts... you can usually sense when something doesn't feel quite right and the mistake many folks make is blundering ahead optimistically hoping their gut feeling is wrong and the sweet words they're getting are right. Well, maybe...but not often. Every time I've had a nagging feeling about someone, it's turned out to be well founded.

That said, if you do build a rapport with someone online, then go meet them and spend real time with them. It still might not work out but you'll sure as hell not find out stuck behind a keyboard somewhere far away

Good luck! x

Geez man ya'all need to like just take a chill pill and relax. Dont take life too seriously ya know?
Learn to laugh and smile and relax. So what if you dont have this or that? You're still alive and you're healthy. Humans are always unsatisfied with whatever they have and wont appreciate what they have until it is lost. Dont be that kind of person.

Any case, finding a lover on the internet is FRICKING hard.
"On the telephone line i am anyone, anything i wanna be. I can be a supermodel, a mountain ranger and you wouldnt know the difference." A song by savage garden if u dunno lol

If on the telephone u can act that big of a lie. IT'LL BE EVEN EASIER TO DO IT ON THE INTERNET.
And the internet is for porn. So if you wanna meet real people, do it in the real world. Sure they'll be hearbreaks and rejection. But they're all real. No fakers, no liars. Take the red pill and you'll wake up in bed believing whatever u want to believe. Take the blue pill and you'll see just how far your perseverance will take you. And remember folks, what you think is real isnt, only your mind makes it real.

According to Ts Asia's statement about LTRs between Ts' and men I want to link to a sister of yours who wrote about Men Who Love Transsexuals:

This article is for you if you're a heterosexual or bisexual man seeking a relationship with a transsexual woman or are a guy looking for a girl with something extra. There are many reasons why a man might be attracted to a transsexual, much like there are numerous stereotypes that can undermine potential friendships and relationships.

Read further to learn about the basics...

Syl

You are charming, bud you leave to far away...

LTRs

In my own experience...
I've discovered that LTRs, Getting a long-lasting,nice and well-paid job, Winning the Money Millions Jackpot of the casinos and of the world lotteries, Being born or Getting dead...
They all hold the same magical "Je ne sais quoi (qui, cela qui) pas"!
They all happen only and only "When it is the so-called Right and Proper Time/Season in one's own life for it has come and only if it is really meant/destined/fated to be, meant to happen that way!

Let's say, nobody can go about and say:

- I will be going out tonight and I will find and be found by the greatest love of my life, my best half, etc!

Because we may go out and we may even "get laid" but true and real Love simply happens out of a schedule of its own much like best wishes and dreams...

No riches, no money, nobody can bottle and sell Success and/or Mutual Love, perhaps sex but never ever Mutual Love nor real and true Success.

People may like each other but they cannot make themselves "Care" about/for each other...
Caring comes from within the heart and au natural and people either feel it or they do not!

LTR needs Mutual Caring in order to work out and be successful.

The finding and to be found of the mutual love always hangs on the wings of a Maybe...

But that it is all right... Most of what we can control, we fuck up sooner or later, so it is better than it is Mother Nature, Mother Universe's hands rather than a human being like you and I, LOL.

So get ready, think positive and one of these days who knows Mutual Love will happen and a beautiful LTR will be born for two people who adore each other.

Love and Light,

Sky

p.s. Romantic? Yes! Once you stop dreaming there is nothing left.

I'm single just for like a month, still feels great, because i have no one to say where am i going and when i'll be home, free as a bird, well anyway i feel your pain, but eventually you'll find THE one with whom you'll spend the rest of your life together, so therefor the one must be quite special

with time.