Would You Settle Down With- A Pre-op Or Post-op?

[Guest]

Settle down with cock or without is that the question.

How about setteling down with someone you love, ofcourse pre or post is one's sexual preference, but to compare what ? and why ? 

Pre-op and post-op tgirl can equally be loved and desired.

Have your own, ENJOY ! ¢¾

I love you!!!!!!!!!!!

[Guest]

Yes i could settle down with a TS, If I could just find some one here to get close to.

[Domi 2]

Oh yes !

hello dear and beloved, pardon the intrusion but, after miles of tears shed in the past 7 months for a blonde Ukrainian TV as I can not say, indeed you must allow me to write that

for me it is.

If love is with a capital there is nothing that can stop him

Kiss to all of you

[SolArgenta]

either pre or post - just someone to be happy with

Poor m8, by reviewing all of your posts here, you seem of such an urge and it sadly looks like your area hasn't anything proper to offer?!

But on the other hand... what do you have to offer in return? What makes you attractive for a partner, either non-, pre- or post-op? What should stimulate a ts-girl to contact you? That you're a "virgin" and never had a "shemale" before?

 

 

Lower your expectations and become more realistic on that issue. Keep in mind that you're searching for something unique and very rare, it's not the common girl next door you're admiring. And therefore, the unique offer requires a unique step on your part.

There are many ts-girls, including some of the most beautiful ones, in the US but you would probably have to change your location, don't await them "...coming soon to a theater near you" but await more yourself coming near them, in metropolitan areas, like Los Angeles, New York etc.

I mean Europe is not different at all; you'll find them mostly in the major cities, such as London, Paris, Rome, Madrid, Amsterdam, Frankfurt, Zurich, Geneva, Genoa, Milano etc. The most important: you need a proper infrastructure for a successful hunt, which in this case means a location with a high concentration of bars, discotheques, night-clubs and other dating possibilities.

 

 

Or have you ever considered a James Bond mission to the far east? Phuket in Thailand could be a place of your interest; ladyboys as sand on the beach, one more beautiful than the other. End your hopeless search ad momentum and take immediately a trip to Asia and enjoy the absolute finest this world has to offer!

 

 

 

Perhaps if you're more on the Latina type of girls, then I could recommend you Venezuela, Colombia, Chile, Cuba, Dominican and of course Brazilian butts!

 

As another exotic insiders' tip I could add Tel Aviv in Israel. It depends on your own favor in ethnicity, I've just mentioned those that reflect my personal taste; Asians, Latinas, the Rest - in this order.

 

 

But maybe we should start with some basic literature a priori?

Men Who Love Transsexuals

 

By Gianna E. Israel

Copyright 2001

 

This article is for you if you're a heterosexual or bisexual man seeking a relationship with a transsexual woman or are a guy looking for a girl with something extra. There are many reasons why a man might be attracted to a transsexual, much like there are numerous stereotypes that can undermine potential friendships and relationships. Read further to learn about the basics.

 

 

What's In a Name?

 

It helps to know exactly what you are looking for, because there are many types of transgender people. Generally a transsexual or new woman perceives herself as a female. After hormones and painful electrolysis, she may undergo a variety of surgeries. On the other hand, a crossdresser is a male who enjoys female attire, and might even be interested in dating a man once or twice. Yet, crossdressers generally are not interested in surgery or self-identifying as a woman. Gay males who crossdress for stage and playtime are also not interested in womanhood. Transgenderists are persons who like keeping parts of both gender and most accurately meet the description "best of both worlds."

 

All of that is a very narrow snapshot of transgender people who present as female, part or full-time. Go ahead and ask a potential partner about her goals and dreams. Ask how she identifies herself. And, share what you are looking for. Is it a dream date, a friendship or a relationship?

 

If you are seeking a 'she-male' it would be wise to know that is a sex industry term. Some transsexual women may feel disrespected if you use that term, especially if your lady isn't for hire. Also, not every transgender is interested in being the fantasy of a girl with something extra! If you are looking for that, say so up front so that there is no misunderstanding.

 

A general rule of thumb when it comes to pronouns, is to use the one which correctly matches a person's manner of dress and actions. Female dress = she, her, hers. Male dress = he, him, his. The same rule applies to name and title.

 

 

Do You Want Dinner or a Private Party?

 

Many transsexuals are looking for friendships and relationships. A few are looking to experiment. Others are looking to be all the slut they can be. Ask a woman what she is interested in, tell her about your needs, and see if there is compatibility. If there isn't mutual interest, ask if she knows someone or a place you can meet others.

 

A great many heterosexual men finally get around to exploring their curiosity about transsexuals after they are married to genetic women, have children, and even sometimes have prestigious careers. Occasionally some men try to relive an experience of having had a one-time encounter with a transsexual earlier in their lives.

 

Whatever your motivation, be honest. For any encounter or relationship to be successful this is necessary. Particularly if both people wish to have a good time, not feel guilty afterward, or build on something meaningful. If you can't be entirely honest, say so, or consider compensating a special girl for her undivided attentiveness to your needs.

 

 

Should You Pay For Surgery?

 

Every so often I hear of a transgender woman receiving a gift of surgery money without any strings attached. Giving without expectations is truly the least complicated approach, and it brings out the best in the donor and recipient.

 

Sometimes paying for transition-related expenses is not an alternative. What can be done to increase a friend or loved one's quality of life, is to increase that person's chances at success in the world. A variety of my clients have lived with their boyfriends or lovers while finishing an academic degree or moving forward on career goals. Surgery should never be a transsexuals only priority. Encourage your loved one to focus on a full life with balanced priorities.

 

 

Things May Change After Surgery.

 

During and after transition a new woman may want to explore different avenues in her life. She may have no interest in the transgender community for awhile, or later want to return for socialization. Although surgery is unlikely to change sexual orientation, many women want to try new sexual experiences, even if only once.

 

Occasionally, the post-surgical lack of that 'something extra' steals the spark which fired the fantasy for some men. In fact, many transsexuals after surgery (and even sometimes before) become ordinary women, and that may likely have been their goal all along. For all these potential changes, people in relationships should talk. Contingency or alternative plans should be discussed in case one or both person's needs change.

 

Notably, in the case of severe depression or medical illness, transsexual women occasionally become more androgynous or lose interest in femininity. People in relationships should be aware of the symptoms for major depression or illness, which can include major changes in sleep, eating, work habits, relationships, etc. If you believe your loved one is suffering from depression or illness, refer her to appropriate medical or mental health care.

 

 

Does Dating a Transsexual Make Me a Homosexual or Even a Transsexual?

 

The short answers to the above question is 'no.' Your sexual orientation is whatever you define it to be. Generally most men who date transsexuals do not define themselves as gay. The vast majority are also not perceived as gay by others, although sometimes bigoted people will try to push their opinion of who is gay on you. Dating a transsexual may mean that after discussing disclosure with your partner, either one or both of you may want to 'forewarn' your family and friends that your girlfriend is overcoming a medical problem. By and large, most good people seem perfectly willing to accept loving couples who are compatible. Interestingly, there are even couples where the male partner might not necessarily have chosen a transsexual woman, but love brought two people together for a successful relationship.

 

If you are a man that likes to crossdress, or secretly has girlish feelings, there is a possibility you may have repressed gender issues. Occasionally men will date transsexuals because their curiosity goes beyond attraction or they want to live vicariously through another's experiences. Whatever your situation, make certain to discuss this before entering into a relationship, because not every transsexual would be interested in dating another transgender person.

 

 

Can I Get AIDS From a Transsexual?

 

You can become HIV-infected or spread sexually transmitted diseases to others by having unprotected sex. Learn how to use condoms correctly. Consistently protect others and yourself each time you have sex. Remember that alcohol and substances lower your inhibitions.

 

You will want to bear in mind that in some urban areas transsexuals have a high rate of infection. The good news is early intervention and healthy, stress-reduced lifestyles are increasing the way we look at sexually transmitted diseases. Many HIV-positive individuals lead productive lives and have stable relationships.

 

 

Can a Relationship Last?

 

Yes, absolutely. Based on my review of clinical data from my counseling practice, approximately 75% of women, who have at least 3 years post-transition experience, are involved in relationships which they characterize as long-term and meaningful. Interestingly, the cause of breakups for most relationships is generally not the transsexualism. If your relationship begins to develop conflicts consider couples counseling. Relationships often are work, and it helps to get advice how to make things easier. What ever your intimacy and relationship goals, good luck!

 

Source: http://www.firelily.com/gender/gianna/men.who.love.ts.html

 

 

 

To be honest, either in the US or in Asia or anywhere else, your search is combined with financial investments. Once your obsession dominates over you and you are willing to pay the prize at all costs, you'll get what you're looking for, in the US or anywhere else.

 

Hell yeah, for the girl of my desire, I would not only fly across all earthly borders but to the moon itself and even beyond.

 

One of my most precious jewels: Ann (Pre-op picture)

 

 

Whenever a girlfriend felt uncomfortable as pre-op, then it was my duty as part of the relationship to support her further steps. Many things have to be discussed and thought of prior to a decision, such as aging or the possible restriction in the ability of having an orgasm after the surgery. Seeing my partner happy, is most important and is what gives me happiness in return.

I think those that exclusively insist on a cock are better served by an escort, where they could experience their wet fantasies by an hour charge.

I find them as disturbing as those that look only for big boobs or any other person-reducing fetish they may have constructed within their twisted minds.

 

While, by detailed observation, my fetish for high heels and that every girlfriend has to wear them in bed, makes me perhaps as twisted and disturbing as the above described fraction.

 

 

Love and kisses to all the cute ts girls worldwide! May you all find the way to my bedroom!

this kind of toughts and recomendations really makes me sick.... since when going to the chinesse supermarket became the same than have a relation?

Wasnt the topic about settle? or was about 3rd world trans shopping...

In that case i can also recomend for my lady partners dont waste time with fantasaizin caucasian looser who will never face the fact they like dick as much as breathing, take a trip to the 3rd world and get a strong 1.90 muscle hung ever hard dick , at least wich is the problem to be with some whose with you for papers money or just a passport to leave poverty? who couldnt be fullfill in heart and soul with such REAl relation ?

pathetic

 

i think the topic issue is bad formulated in its grammar.....WOUlD YOu...?? of course you will get only IF answers... if i love her, if the person, if ,if ,if.....oh we all are so nice people in the field of IFS...

I rather answer ARE YOU SETTLE WITH A PRE OP OR POST OP TODAY?

 

[Domi 2]

Oh Sol darling.

I like how you interpret the argument.

In a world quite hypocritical and certainly not tolerant of diversity, thinking that we can succeed or sweet mate, good, maybe even rich, strong and secure is not so obvious.

Luck and chance play an important role only as individuals but not always the case.

And then you still doubt the largest not satisfied, indeed makes the vast majority of us are disappointed once they agreed to become a woman is almost complete.

But because we do it for us (and then is fine) or others?

Hello Queen

[TikiBoomBoom]

Ha Ha! Miss Sol!! I can't tell you how many times I have felt many approach this site as if they were ordering a meal from a fast-food restaurant: "I'll take one large breasted-transsexual, with a large penis." "Oh! And can I have fries with that?" LOL! It's as if they don't consider any aspect of the soul or of one's inner self. Honestly, if a person is interested in connecting only with body parts, how authentic and they truly be. It is better that this type of person interact with escorts, then he can fine-tune his search requirements to the specs he requires with his.."order." LMAO!

[Aust1n]

Ha Ha! Miss Sol!! I can't tell you how many times I have felt many approach this site as if they were ordering a meal from a fast-food restaurant: "I'll take one large breasted-transsexual, with a large penis." "Oh! And can I have fries with that?" LOL! It's as if they don't consider any aspect of the soul or of one's inner self. Honestly, if a person is interested in connecting only with body parts, how authentic and they truly be. It is better that this type of person interact with escorts, then he can fine-tune his search requirements to the specs he requires with his.."order." LMAO!

You know that is how the site is set up though, Diane, and it will never change.

It is a shame as there are a few nice people on here, although they are few and far between.

[amherstfrog]

Sol - I think you have over analyzed this thread - Most of us are looking for a soul mate and for some reason or the other have not found that person yet - male, female, ts, tg, or whatever. This topic is Would you settle down with a Pre-op or post-op and we answered that according to our feelings. You seem to want be critical of all of us. We are just looking for someone special or any gender but maybe leaning toward pre or post op - or female - maybe we just fail with women - who knows but it is an individual issue and you have tried to put us in a box. Date one or two of us and find out about our side of the issue - we are just looking for love.

[SolArgenta]

Sol - I think you have over analyzed this thread - Most of us are looking for a soul mate and for some reason or the other have not found that person yet - male, female, ts, tg, or whatever. This topic is Would you settle down with a Pre-op or post-op and we answered that according to our feelings. You seem to want be critical of all of us. We are just looking for someone special or any gender but maybe leaning toward pre or post op - or female - maybe we just fail with women - who knows but it is an individual issue and you have tried to put us in a box. Date one or two of us and find out about our side of the issue - we are just looking for love.

Hi amherstfrog, and all. Please for give me if my coment may have ofended you

cause was not my intention at all!

i do not put on doubt about the honesty and sincerity of your original cuestion....was the replay what put me out of the boxes!

Sorry im not the PC tipe....also apologies not to have a nicer answer to give in front of Such response....someone sent you to goe for a fast food trans 3rd world tour and you think im critizaicing that? in that case yes i am! as you may understand it is not the first time a Trans hears as well as the cuestion the answer too. Read TIKi coments .....its every day.

Take a min and consider if your not killing the messanger not the message...

 

No personal feeling envolve here please do not miss

understood me.

Greatings Sol

 

[Guest]

Yes I would. It depends on the person and make little difference to me if they are a Pre-op, Post-op or whatever.

[Guest]

That is an easy question.I would omly settle down with a pre op .I love breast and love sucking a great cock.I have only seen great cocks on pre op she-males.

[Guest]

I am amazed at what I have been reading here. Personally, I would love to settle down with the right man. What I want is a HETEROSEXUAL guy. I have no interest in men that want to suck on a cock or be poked by one. I want a man who knows that HE is the man in the bedroom. If anyone is going to have a cock in their mouth - it will be me. If anyone is going to have a cock inside of them, it also better be me.

 

I'm sorry, but speaking as a heterosexual woman, I am looking for a HETEROSEXUAL man. I love being post-op, and more specifically, for me "having sex" means being penetrated by my lovers cock and feeling his balls slap me when it is all the way inside my pussy.