SiamSam2 Posted August 18, 2012 Report Share Posted August 18, 2012 The title name of this website is about ''dating'' yet an overwhelming percentage of accounts seem to be ''Escorts''.... Wouldnt this website be a lot more fufilling experience if ''Escorts'' and those looking for a date (or whatever else!) where seperate??? I dont pay to get laid unfortunately... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 18, 2012 Report Share Posted August 18, 2012 Why stop there?! Why not let's divide it into fat people and thin people, tall people and short people, old people and young people, black people and white people, gay people and straight people...(I'm sure all PEOPLE get my point?) Please, enough of the "anti-escort" sentiment - the vast majority of Transgendered People are sex-workers. NEWSFLASH!!! "ESCORTS" are PEOPLE too! YIP. I cant speak for all "escorts", but we too enjoy the occasional LTR (Long Term Realtionship) and Friendships (without financial remuneration) and most of the things that "normal", "decent" folks enjoy Furthermore, "escorting" was not my first choice of profession (or, I'm sure, that of any other TG) YIP. What a shocker! I did not sit at my school desk, wishing........"how I'd love to suck cock for a living" NOPE. In a perfect world, Transgendered People would be totally acceptable (as such) would have equal rights, limitless opportunities and would not have to be burdened by the toxic guilt that "straight" cocksuckers transfer onto them. Sadly, it is not a perfect world, but we Transgendered People have to live in it and, if we cannot procure a "decent" job (due to prejudice) our need to survive, in most cases, leads us down the Escorting Avenue, further motivated by the fact that most (not all) "admirers" wanna HAVE THEIR CAKE (family/children/"normal, acceptable", supposedly decent life) AND EAT IT (have a bit of cock - on the side). So, if "straight" "admirers" want to have secret sex - nothing more - why not make sure we are compensated for being made to feel like nothing more than a "release" for their "dark desires". LOGICAL @ SIAMSAM2.........FYI(For Your Information).............If you are not colour blind, DATING profiles = BLUE..."ESCORT"profiles = PINK. Avoid the PINK profiles - problem solved Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnBaum Posted August 18, 2012 Report Share Posted August 18, 2012 @Sherazaad Word! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 18, 2012 Report Share Posted August 18, 2012 Thanks JOHNBAUM Sometimes one just has to say what needs to be said. YIP Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 18, 2012 Report Share Posted August 18, 2012 The title name of this website is about ''dating'' yet an overwhelming percentage of accounts seem to be ''Escorts''.... Wouldnt this website be a lot more fufilling experience if ''Escorts'' and those looking for a date (or whatever else!) where seperate??? I dont pay to get laid unfortunately... whether you like it or not, escorts keep this site going. the vast majority of members here are standard members and the vast majority of paying members are escorts. They bring the money hunnie beau. Reality check. @sherazaad I wish the word would be a more fair ground for all of us, its a shame that a lot of girls in our community fall in the cracks. We just need to strive for what we want in life, sometimes we all have to do things that the openly escorts do for a living. All tho some men claim they don't pay for sex, they end up spending more with a non excort than with an excorts! Nothing in life is free! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 18, 2012 Report Share Posted August 18, 2012 i am a paying member , because i like this site. and that the most are escort ,but still that the most off them are just nice and sweet lady,s :-) and always hope that i can become just friends,and also on facebook and i am not hiding away. i do have some friends there to,but can alway be more off course and i hope 1 day that i will living toghtere whit such nice lady. you can have dream, and mabye someday the dream come true. robert Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 18, 2012 Report Share Posted August 18, 2012 @sherazaad I wish the word would be a more fair ground for all of us, its a shame that a lot of girls in our community fall in the cracks. We just need to strive for what we want in life, sometimes we all have to do things that the openly escorts do for a living. @ TSGORGEOUS You are so right, I have seen too many of my counterparts fall into the cracks, due to the constant brow-beating, disrespect, marginalising and dehumanisation we Transgendered People have to endure on an ongoing basis. I wish the "admirers" could appreciate the hurdles that we have to negotiate constantly to be their " fantasy". We have worked hard to become the works of art we were brave enough to become and the people who cant appreciate our efforts and those who seek to prey upon us because they perceive us to be weak and powerless are really NOT worth our while. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hans81 Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 The title name of this website is about ''dating'' yet an overwhelming percentage of accounts seem to be ''Escorts''.... Wouldnt this website be a lot more fufilling experience if ''Escorts'' and those looking for a date (or whatever else!) where seperate??? I dont pay to get laid unfortunately... What does it matter,what a person does in her life??? Respect just the person...not the job,and I know you can find good friends on this site!! I know,I did!!!. So it does not matter what the site's name is......it is just "in a name" !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 I agree with Shera! @SiamSam2: the word dating is just a matter of interpretation. Isn't dating all about having company, paid or not paid? Actually, as a man you are always supposed to pay for the (first) date. I don't see a reason changing the name of this website. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 What does it matter,what a person does in her life??? Respect just the person...not the job,and I know you can find good friends on this site!! I know,I did!!!. So it does not matter what the site's name is......it is just "in a name" !! @ HANS81 Very true.........escorting is something we DO - not something we ARE. It is an inescapable fact that most Transgendered Individuals are in the sex industry. To stigmatize escorts, if one actually gives it some thought, only serves to further oppress our community. I, personally, feel the same way about escorting, as I do about being Transgendered - I am not proud of it, yet I am not ashamed of it. Allowing LABELS to define and imprison you, robs you of so many potentially fulfilling experiences that are yours for the having Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 I, personally, feel the same way about escorting, as I do about being Transgendered - I am not proud of it, yet I am not ashamed of it. Allowing LABELS to define and imprison you, robs you of so many potentially fulfilling experiences that are yours for the having @Shera just be proud at the person you are Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 I wish that tses would only use "escorting" as a platform to move onto something great and become someone they can feel proud of, but somehow it seems to me that most get stuck in it. I have often criticize escorts for one reason or the other, many of them are so passable that I cant understand why they cant get a normal job. I am no one to judge, but if I have criticize I have done it, because I believe they can achieve so much more. Not to degrade them or anything of that sort I don't approve of people bashing escorts or anyone for their jobs or for that matter anyone bashing anyone for being different or special. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 I wish that tses would only use "escorting" as a platform to move onto something great and become someone they can feel proud of, but somehow it seems to me that most get stuck in it. I have often criticize escorts for one reason or the other, many of them are so passable that I cant understand why they cant get a normal job. I am no one to judge, but if I have criticize I have done it, because I believe they can achieve so much more. Not to degrade them or anything of that sort I don't approve of people bashing escorts or anyone for their jobs or for that matter anyone bashing anyone for being different or special. I agree. Once started as an escort it seems me hard to do something else. Having no experience than being an escort results in an empty resume, which ends up in less opportunities. Unfortunately society is pretty prejudged, which makes it hard in mean of 'if people find out'. Addionally in terms of relation it seems me quite hard as well. Very few partners are that open minded they don't mind a girls past. Therefore I hope girls are not ending up lonely or frustrated, but really love the life and finding their prince in order to feel like a woman instead of a lust object. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 @Shera just be proud at the person you are This coming from a person ashamed to show his face?! HILARIOUS! The point I was trying to make, is that escorting and being Transgendered is not an "achievement" to be proud of (or ashamed of). IT IS WHAT IT IS. It should not be allowed to get in the way of living one's life AUTHENTICALLY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 This coming from a person ashamed to show his face?! HILARIOUS! Showing my face or not doesn't say a thing about the genuinity of my reaction. Anyway, enjoy your Sunday! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 This coming from a person ashamed to show his face?! HILARIOUS! Showing my face or not doesn't say a thing about the genuinity of my reaction. IT SPEAKS VOLUMES Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnBaum Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 I agree with Shera! @SiamSam2: the word dating is just a matter of interpretation. Isn't dating all about having company, paid or not paid? Actually, as a man you are always supposed to pay for the (first) date. I don't see a reason changing the name of this website. If one of the head-less (semi-faceless) might add twopence... I strongly agree with hotguynl about the semantics of the word "dating"! This is just the way we are, as people. Relationships are always "transactional" in the final analysis, as Richard Dawkins pointed out in The Selfish Gene almost 40 years ago. So I - a little sadly - believe, anyway. The other key point in the debate is Sherazaad's: "It should not be allowed to get in the way of living one's life AUTHENTICALLY." For all the compromises we might make in our lives, the two most damaging ones are not to BE OURSELVES or to surrender to FEAR. We all do employ these defensive reactions on occasion but can do a lot better the more we can avoid them. And, as a facetious postscript, Sherazaad might not be either proud or ashamed of the work she does - with utter professionalism, I might add - so she can be glad she is not an international banker right now! They are neither proud nor ashamed and if I were a member on a "bankers admirers" site I would make VERY SURE that my identity was COMPLETELY hidden! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 I wish that tses would only use "escorting" as a platform to move onto something great and become someone they can feel proud of, but somehow it seems to me that most get stuck in it. I have often criticize escorts for one reason or the other, many of them are so passable that I cant understand why they cant get a normal job. I am no one to judge, but if I have criticize I have done it, because I believe they can achieve so much more. Not to degrade them or anything of that sort I don't approve of people bashing escorts or anyone for their jobs or for that matter anyone bashing anyone for being different or special. @ TSGORGEOUS I feel you. I used to judge escorts harshly, looked down upon them, told them what a bad face they give to "Our Community". Then I started my METAMORPHOSIS.........lost my "decent" job and found my way into escorting. It was a hard lesson that I had learnt, but it encouraged me to always look deeper than the surface and to understand that sometimes people do the things they do, for reasons we might not understand. Initially, I planned to escort until I had saved up enough for SRS, but, along the way, I realised that what's between your ears and what's in your heart, is more important than what's between your legs (many admirers will probably disagree - hehehe) Suffice it to say.......I LOVE MY JOB (and EVERY inch of my body). I will move onto the next chapter of my life when the time is right (KAIROS) I will always be there for my counterparts, irrespective of their profession, level of passability or financial station. We need SOLIDARITY, because only we understand this path we walk. PEACE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 I agree with Shera! @SiamSam2: the word dating is just a matter of interpretation. Isn't dating all about having company, paid or not paid? Actually, as a man you are always supposed to pay for the (first) date. I don't see a reason changing the name of this website. If one of the head-less (semi-faceless) might add twopence... I strongly agree with hotguynl about the semantics of the word "dating"! This is just the way we are, as people. Relationships are always "transactional" in the final analysis, as Richard Dawkins pointed out in The Selfish Gene almost 40 years ago. So I - a little sadly - believe, anyway. The other key point in the debate is Sherazaad's: "It should not be allowed to get in the way of living one's life AUTHENTICALLY." For all the compromises we might make in our lives, the two most damaging ones are not to BE OURSELVES or to surrender to FEAR. We all do employ these defensive reactions on occasion but can do a lot better the more we can avoid them. And, as a facetious postscript, Sherazaad might not be either proud or ashamed of the work she does - with utter professionalism, I might add - so she can be glad she is not an international banker right now! They are neither proud nor ashamed and if I were a member on a "bankers admirers" site I would make VERY SURE that my identity was COMPLETELY hidden! JohnBaum, your mouth is full of truth! Like I said before, these men claiming they don't pay for sex are so full of shit. No ts will date a deadbeat man, trust me this particular group of people to whom I belong has much higher set standards than the average woman when to comes to dating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 Like I said before, these men claiming they don't pay for sex are so full of shit. i think you are right, i have paid also for a dates. the experince whas wonderfull. but that makes me the way i am now also. that i like ts very much and i am also at a point that i want more then just a paydate. what is more wonderfull to share a life whit a nice ts lady forever. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 For all the compromises we might make in our lives, the two most damaging ones are not to BE OURSELVES or to surrender to FEAR. @ JOHNBAUM Marry me? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 lol you guys completely missed the point of the thread you are on a completely different topic Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnBaum Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 @ JOHNBAUM Marry me? My dearest Sherazaad! I'll have my people speak to your people so we can set up the contracts. PS: And Scientology is NOT an option! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnBaum Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 No ts will date a deadbeat man, trust me this particular group of people to whom I belong has much higher set standards than the average woman when to comes to dating. SO well said! *APPLAUSE* SO well said! *APPLAUSE* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 19, 2012 Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 I'll have my people speak to your people so we can set up the contracts. PS: And Scientology is NOT an option! Let's do it "IN COMMUNITY OF PROPERTY"........ then you can choose our new religion (hehehe) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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