carcel Posted November 17, 2014 Report Share Posted November 17, 2014 I am married.I have always love woman and feminity. three years ago by I had an ecounter with a TS girl, since that same moment I got totally hook to them and I am been periodically visiting them as soon as I travel or have the chance. It totally blow my sexuality. This have seriuosly affected my marriage as I dont longer feel very atrracted to my wife and sex with her is becoming a tramit. I am always fantasizing with gorgeous shemales. Sometimes I regret the day i started as I feel completly underground and it is something I cant share with most of the people. Also contrary to gays, shemales have long way to go as they are not as accepted in society as gays are.Unfortunately most of them are whores. I am heterosexual and I have neve feel attracted by a man. But I feel trap in this situation. could this be considered an adiction? Should I tell my wife? Should I talk with a psicologist or.... should I keep silence and living this double life, that not exent of suffering I enjoy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaye123 Posted November 24, 2014 Report Share Posted November 24, 2014 I think you should talk with a therapist because this is complex and can cause a lot of conflicting feelings, as well as a lot of pain for both you and your wife. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NovScorpion Posted November 27, 2014 Report Share Posted November 27, 2014 i fully agrees with Kaye123 here. Living a double life is not healthy, not for you and not for your wife. You cannot be honest to someone if you are not honest to yourself. Maybe a first step to make an appointment with a therapist/psychologist. Good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocky1 Posted December 6, 2014 Report Share Posted December 6, 2014 not all "shemales" are whores and because some are p4p doesn't make them bad either - dont be painting them all with the same brush. I can see a Jerry Springer episode here - seriously are you happy in your marriage - you dont need to go and see someone about this you need to answer this question- if you answer yes then you have to make the effort to make it better including stop seeing TS ladies it is as simple as that - go cold turkey. It seems to me that your liking of TS ladies is purely sexual not of wanting a relationship - is this correct?- as for TS Ladies not being accepted well only the two people would know and no one needs to know what the gender of the person is. making the sex you like to have with TS Ladies is someting you need to broach with your wife about trying what ever it is you do can also be done with a born women if you know what i mean. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lunarfact Posted January 6, 2015 Report Share Posted January 6, 2015 Dear carcel I have gone through the same dilemma and it hurts mentally and emotionally. I know how it feels like.....i have been absent from the TS girls scene for two years and its hell for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BABYNIKKI Posted January 7, 2015 Report Share Posted January 7, 2015 funny as u know what you want…so go for it…... why discussing about TS BEING A WHORE…. please do not use that WORD it is so harsh! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lunarfact Posted January 7, 2015 Report Share Posted January 7, 2015 I am against all classification of people of being given offensive labels. The main topic is about conflict of emotions and passion for two different lives into a paradox. Dear carcel You dont need consultation. You need to decide on your cup of tea. It seems that where you come from is similar to my case, where transgendered people are hated and not accepted or welcomed. I dont agree with the "whore" label that you gave cuz you only met girls who met with you for exchange of services. If you met a normal TS girl, who through interaction may sweep your heart away. I have known such a girl and almost broke my previous engagement to be with her yet she didnt seem serious in the end and couldnt blow my chances on a whim. I have gone through the same phase of guilt and torment. Sober up from any porn addiction and keep away from ts sites for a couple of months and see how you react. I have found out that my interest and attraction for ts girls is genuine and undeniable. Its something that i have to live with, in my heart for me only. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psylocke Posted January 23, 2015 Report Share Posted January 23, 2015 i do believe u should see a therapist , ........... labelling transexual a whore, without noticing that u r the real whore ... married and still fucking around .... yes some of us are working girl , but what do u expect ? a decent single transexual lady meeting a married men to fulfill the his dirtiest desire for nothing while cheating behind his wife ? come on babe ... get real no offence but before u want to judge others, u should first look into the mirror Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yahright11 Posted May 20, 2015 Report Share Posted May 20, 2015 I was same got counseling , not because seeing ladyboy but because cheating on wife, she new and was not happy to be expected. In perfect world I would have two wifes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lunarfact Posted May 20, 2015 Report Share Posted May 20, 2015 I was same got counseling , not because seeing ladyboy but because cheating on wife, she new and was not happy to be expected. In perfect world I would have two wifes So what did consuling do? You still in this forum lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yahright11 Posted May 21, 2015 Report Share Posted May 21, 2015 Hehe Hmmm not that much bro Guess got it out in the open Wife aware that I like two types of girls Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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