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why all shemales in this site are looking for money? why there is not a serious realtionship?

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I'm just wondering why I can't make a serious relationship with a shemale? why the most of shemales here are looking for sex? why it's always about sex??

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I think a lot of transgender people are forced into escort work.  There's a lot of prejudice against them and it is hard for them to get decent jobs.  Also, there are still medical costs they have to pay for, and those are expensive.  Many transgender people lose the support of their families because of prejudice.  Many men are looking just for sex, too.  Having  sex with a transgender is a novelty, and they cannot deal with a relationship with a transgender person.  Many people I know are still freaked out by transsexuals and may end friendships with men who date or marry a transgender person.  This is just my opinion.  What do other people think?

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This is serious topic..for many men why ..TS-lady escort on ..

I would say I am also ladyboy ..and someone looking for serious relationship too but u must check what king of wedsite u r sreaching it is escort or not escort. That first thing

The second ...I am transfer to be lady it not easy and not cheap we did many beauty like lady we have take hormones ,surgery, remove hair, salon, we did we love to do to be ts-lady, we must take care body more than lady's.I am also understand many man ...and understsnd try to find a good relationship but in a real love, but men doesn't know details how a lot tiny tiny details it make a lot cost for us , about this is reason for younger man never understand this is because they just don't understand how deep details ts-lady can become lady...most man been with ts-lady ...they understand  this is reason and they love someone they already understand if u want relationship with ts-lady ..it cost money really if we must become a lady look pretty for relationship...they can responsible situation.

Sorry if my English not really perfect. But I will try to tell some man understsnd this is topic.

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Hi, I think that many transgenders are very willing to find a steady relationship here or elsewhere. The cruel fact is that it's not easy. Many men wants to try and experience TS people, but only few knows if they want TS as a partner.

On the other hand, transgender living is quite expensive, I suppose.

So I believe that there is practical reasons why almost all search a beneficiary sex relationship. If you get honestly interested for relationship, ask. I quess that many might be Willing to have one. :)

 

Cheers.. ricke

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On 02/12/2017 at 8:45 AM, Pinkgold said:

This is serious topic..for many men why ..TS-lady escort on ..

I would say I am also ladyboy ..and someone looking for serious relationship too but u must check what king of wedsite u r sreaching it is escort or not escort. That first thing

The second ...I am transfer to be lady it not easy and not cheap we did many beauty like lady we have take hormones ,surgery, remove hair, salon, we did we love to do to be ts-lady, we must take care body more than lady's.I am also understand many man ...and understsnd try to find a good relationship but in a real love, but men doesn't know details how a lot tiny tiny details it make a lot cost for us , about this is reason for younger man never understand this is because they just don't understand how deep details ts-lady can become lady...most man been with ts-lady ...they understand  this is reason and they love someone they already understand if u want relationship with ts-lady ..it cost money really if we must become a lady look pretty for relationship...they can responsible situation.

Sorry if my English not really perfect. But I will try to tell some man understsnd this is topic.

Good point but asking money to be pretty for men is so fuc... up .. im sorry but it make no sense

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Beauty it just apart of ladys..money it all for everyone. I only want to tell u it cost a lot of ladyboy for a beauty and for sure they want you understand support some reason this is I would like to tell..or you r unlucky if that ladyboy selfish so much thinking only what they want for themself doesn't care with a relationship..that shouldn't thinking about relationship like that.... If u said doesn't make sense ..that it turn. Only you understand..you will ok or not ok for support ? .I know u might try to find reason for have relationship. But for the main reason relationship it mean have to support eachother ..the reason or make sense ..whatever u want to tell. Nothing to make sense... it just ur feeling want and u research that character u can imagine u can have her.....but I pray for u find a person match and understand you and like ur personal. But I am sure u will find someone understand ur reason..^_^

My apologies if my English not perfect. But be positive ...the best way make life beautiful.

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Serious relationships ALSO involve money and are MORE expensive in the long run.  If you want a serious relationship with a transgender woman, just go find one somewhere besides this website.  The ladies here are glamorized and doing escort business to support themselves.  If the only trans women who interest you are the ones in escort ads, then maybe you have an expectation that the women you see will spend a lot of time and money to look perfect for you.  And in that case, of course you should expect to pay for the expenses involved, whether she is your personal girlfriend or an escort you spent an hour with.  There are other trans women in this world who do not wear makeup, spend lots of time & money on their hair & nails, take glamorized sexy photos to post publicly online, maintain a publicly published phone number, keep their calendars open to entertain men at a time/date of their choosing, etc.  In other words there are plenty of trans women who are not escorts.  You just have to work hard in your life to find them.  Accept them for who they are even if they do not look like the glamorized feminine goddesses on this website.  If you want a beautiful lady spending lots of money to look perfect for you, publishing her contact details, who has made time in her life to meet men from the internet who she doesn't even know, then you're going to need to pay for that.  It's just not realistic to expect it from a woman who is not a professional.

If you respect trans women in life besides for sex but don't know how to meet them, I think getting involved in political organizing to support transgender rights would be a good way to get to know trans women in a non-sexual way and give you a realistic possibility of finding a relationship with one.  Focusing your search on a website full of sexy photos is not the way!

Most men who say they want a REAL relationship with a transgender woman, especially on a dating website, are just chasing a fantasy.  They would never suffer the social consequences of actually standing behind a trans woman publicly in a relationship.  Most ladies on sites like these have heard these lies too many times to take anyone seriously who says "I love you, I want to be with you", etc.  If you're one of the rare guys who is actually serious about forming a publicly-acknowledged, long term relationship with a trans woman, you need to search somewhere else.  But you also need to GET REAL with yourself that ANY relationship with ANY woman is going to cost you MONEY, whether it's by the hour or otherwise.

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Many reasons

Everyone is looking for something, i am a escort now, never did before, but now im doing and is really fine for me,

most of guys want sex, they dont want take a trans girl in a date, show to their family and friends,

many of the trans come from a simple life and do this is a really good chance in make some money, be a trans and get a decent job still very hard in some places, here in japan is totally complicated, they even asked me to cut my hair and dye to black, also they only give me mens job

in my case is, since most of people want casual sex, i ask for money for that, also i can make my own time and have some free time and i dont need do some mens job here in japan or be treated very badly at the work.

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On 7/15/2018 at 11:45 AM, furryFTM said:

Serious relationships ALSO involve money and are MORE expensive in the long run.  If you want a serious relationship with a transgender woman, just go find one somewhere besides this website.  The ladies here are glamorized and doing escort business to support themselves.  If the only trans women who interest you are the ones in escort ads, then maybe you have an expectation that the women you see will spend a lot of time and money to look perfect for you.  And in that case, of course you should expect to pay for the expenses involved, whether she is your personal girlfriend or an escort you spent an hour with.  There are other trans women in this world who do not wear makeup, spend lots of time & money on their hair & nails, take glamorized sexy photos to post publicly online, maintain a publicly published phone number, keep their calendars open to entertain men at a time/date of their choosing, etc.  In other words there are plenty of trans women who are not escorts.  You just have to work hard in your life to find them.  Accept them for who they are even if they do not look like the glamorized feminine goddesses on this website.  If you want a beautiful lady spending lots of money to look perfect for you, publishing her contact details, who has made time in her life to meet men from the internet who she doesn't even know, then you're going to need to pay for that.  It's just not realistic to expect it from a woman who is not a professional.

If you respect trans women in life besides for sex but don't know how to meet them, I think getting involved in political organizing to support transgender rights would be a good way to get to know trans women in a non-sexual way and give you a realistic possibility of finding a relationship with one.  Focusing your search on a website full of sexy photos is not the way!

Most men who say they want a REAL relationship with a transgender woman, especially on a dating website, are just chasing a fantasy.  They would never suffer the social consequences of actually standing behind a trans woman publicly in a relationship.  Most ladies on sites like these have heard these lies too many times to take anyone seriously who says "I love you, I want to be with you", etc.  If you're one of the rare guys who is actually serious about forming a publicly-acknowledged, long term relationship with a trans woman, you need to search somewhere else.  But you also need to GET REAL with yourself that ANY relationship with ANY woman is going to cost you MONEY, whether it's by the hour or otherwise.

You know that was my felling almost exactly. I have never been with a transgender women but am very attracted to them. I grew up in a very liberal punk rock movement and I ask myself if I could formerly and publicly date a trans woman. The fear of social stigmas and making me less of a man in some way metes it terifieing. What can I do to over come this?  How do you even meet a transgender woman and would she even like or want to date me? 

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