People sometimes consider me to be aloof because I'm not very outgoing socially. But once you get to know me, you'll see that beneath my reserved exterior is a very romantic man. I'm definitely a person who wants a partner who is also my best friend, because I want to spend as much time together as possible, doing all of the normal things that any couple does, grocery shopping, going to the movies, and of course, having sex and making love.
Why do I mention having sex and making love as though they are two separate things? Well, because I consider them to be different. Of course, making love always involves having sex, but having sex does not always involve making love.
Making love is about two people taking the time to do things to give each other lots of pleasure, such as kissing and touching and licking and caressing. Having sex, as I consider it, is about one partner willingly sublimating his desires in order to serve his partner's sexual needs. Yes, I'm one of those people who knows that sex is a physical need and I enjoy helping my partner satisfy her needs.
What does this mean for our relationship? Well, for example, if I come home to our apartment and all of the lights are off, but you've lit several candles, and you come out of our bedroom wearing sexy lingerie, then I know that we're going to enjoy a night of passionate lovemaking. But sometimes when I come home, you greet me at the door with a brief kiss and then lean close to me and whisper, "Jon, I need a blowjob real bad" and then lick my ear lightly. And the next thing I know, you're pushing me down to my knees with one hand while your other hand pulls your already stiff cock out of your panties and aims it directly at my mouth. That is me, your loving bottom, taking care of your urgent sexual needs. ;)
I enjoy sex VERY much and hope to find a non-op TOP transgirl or ladyboy (but versatile is okay, too 😋) who enjoys it as much (or even more) than I do. I long for the feeling of being desired, of being the one you love to watch giving you a blowjob and the one whose hips you grab so tightly as you thrust yourself DEEP inside me.
If this sounds like your idea of the perfect relationship, then contact me soon. I'm looking for an LTR that could lead to marriage.
By the way, although I consider myself a bottom, I don't consider myself a "sub", that is, I don't want a dominant or domineering partner who wants to boss me around. The only time my girl should be the boss is in bed. For everything else, we'll discuss and compromise just like every other couple does.