alyssaluxor Posted March 31, 2011 Report Share Posted March 31, 2011 Are you surprised that the old guy dressed up in women's lingerie you're fingering in a movie on the web - you know, the one whose face you cannot see - doesn't think it is such a good idea to tell his wife and kids about the quality time has has been having with you? Now THOSE are the people you mostly meet. Not the ones who just want to watch a movie with you and get to know you better. so true for i provide celebrity confidentiality agreement Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 31, 2011 Report Share Posted March 31, 2011 pat,,, individual difference s dear....as simply as you have your own taste of food and i have mine..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 31, 2011 Report Share Posted March 31, 2011 pat,,, individual difference s dear....as simply as you have your own taste of food and i have mine..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coyoteface Posted March 31, 2011 Report Share Posted March 31, 2011 pat,,, individual difference s dear....as simply as you have your own taste of food and i have mine..... Hahaha, you do not have to educate me on the obvious, Joan. I believe that I know this at least just as well as you do. And I do not - I repeat: NOT - ridicule the person nor - and again I repeat: NOR - do I look down on sexworkers (since you try to educate me about their work as well)...at all!. I am emphasizing this because when people start to educate someone about something, others may think that the person made a wrong statement. I did not. What I have just denied - two sentences above this sentence - cannot be read in ANY of my contributions ...or...some of you must have the ability to read words that aren't even there. Face it! Guys who mean well have a hard time finding ts women who do not work as an escort or who get to meet one when she is off-duty ... and ts women have a hard time finding the guys who would be happy to build up a future with her out in the open because they do not fit the profile of her clientele (men who pay for sex and things they are ashamed of). Easy as pie! Yum...pie... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eric60 Posted April 1, 2011 Report Share Posted April 1, 2011 back on topic now?? Why are some men hypocrites? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 1, 2011 Report Share Posted April 1, 2011 pat.. as miss SANTY LAYNO quoted in her ad that not "NOT ALL THE EGG IN THE BASKET ARE ROTTEN"... WEATHER you are a normal person...an ESCORT or NOT....it doesnt mean that you are not seeking for financial stability.....because if you are not then you are an IDIOT.....(period)...thats my opinion and i know most people agreed with me... an escort or not as long as you are beutiful inside and out.....living with good heart and ready to give love even if you are seeking for material things or financial status then its not a lessen to you being a nice person.... as i SAID before...WHO IS NOT WORKING FOR MONEY??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 1, 2011 Report Share Posted April 1, 2011 eric my loving lolo.... man are sometimes hypocrite just to cover up their real identity.....its a "mask" to keep them masculin...because they are arrogant beast to show to people that they have some difficulties...lols... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eric60 Posted April 1, 2011 Report Share Posted April 1, 2011 Joan dear, In French chapeau dear (hat off), you are a rare thing and I admire your sense of responsibility!!! For some this may seem a riddle but for others not... Back to business: Where the hell is my commission!!!! LOL *slaps joan on arse* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coyoteface Posted April 1, 2011 Report Share Posted April 1, 2011 pat.. as miss SANTY LAYNO quoted in her ad that not "NOT ALL THE EGG IN THE BASKET ARE ROTTEN"... WEATHER you are a normal person...an ESCORT or NOT....it doesnt mean that you are not seeking for financial stability.....because if you are not then you are an IDIOT.....(period)...thats my opinion and i know most people agreed with me... an escort or not as long as you are beutiful inside and out.....living with good heart and ready to give love even if you are seeking for material things or financial status then its not a lessen to you being a nice person.... as i SAID before...WHO IS NOT WORKING FOR MONEY??? Joan, what in the world makes you think that I do not understand that people have to make a living and want financial stability? And what should I do with the "not all eggs are rotten" quote when I could never have given you the idea that I do not see people as individuals? What you write is nicely put and most people will applaude you for it, but to me it has just as much to do with my posts than if you would have written me that people should never out a red sweater in the white wash. Because I agree with that 100% as well, but....yeah, and? You do get my point that bakers have to deal with a lot a bread, dentists with teeth and escorts with certain kind of men, right? It is part of their profession. Let me try this in some other way Joan: could you tell me how many potential partners who are interested in you do you meet in a month? Mind you.. only NON-customers, ok? You are very pretty, but I bet that it is not too many. Unfortunately. From those guys how many know what you do for a living? And do you think they would all be cool about it? From the guys that are over now...then yes, there is always a person is too weak to handle the judgement of other people. But come to think of it: is that really hypocrisy? I do not think so. In this setting the guy surely likes to be with this tg girl BUT...that nice feeling is being outweight by his fear for losing his friends and family. Basically he makes a choice. I am not saying that I support his choice, cause personally, there comes a point in time when you have to show some balls, but I do understand where his behavior comes from. You know what hypocrite behavior would be? Men who go to bed with you...and then later hang out with friends agreeing with them that transsexual people are sick bastards who should be shot. THAT is hypocrisy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 2, 2011 Report Share Posted April 2, 2011 pat actually tat is not a topic here....if you read again my first thread....but i just answered you from the start....actually im still nice becasue i said SOME to think that 70 to 80 percent of the man according to my statistic is afraid to show on public that they are dating or likes shemale....because i always ask my clients about it.....hahahahahhah...so i proved it myself....thats the only topic here....weather a working girl or not........ to gran.... wait for your commission hahahahha...i will send it soon...kissssssssss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura b Posted April 2, 2011 Report Share Posted April 2, 2011 unfortunately 90% see us as a fetish that's y i dont feel guilty about my work even if I intend to stop it soon as possible . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coyoteface Posted April 2, 2011 Report Share Posted April 2, 2011 unfortunately 90% see us as a fetish that's y i dont feel guilty about my work even if I intend to stop it soon as possible . Yeah...I would only feel guilty if I would be stealing or hurting innocent people. I agree on the fetish too. I wonder if this is ever going to change. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 5, 2011 Report Share Posted April 5, 2011 heheheeh.....i think not unless there is no man in this world hahahahah....and no lady boys too... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 5, 2011 Report Share Posted April 5, 2011 It's not a perfect world, but it's the only one we've got. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 5, 2011 Report Share Posted April 5, 2011 Hi sister ,hi Laura ...."Shera" gave a great answer and you do not feel guilty (or embarrassed) if instead of your intelligence you are forced to rely on each other. If we were to speak, we speak! :-) Kiss & hug Sabry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TS Asia Posted April 8, 2011 Report Share Posted April 8, 2011 WHY DO GUYS ARE VERY HOT...WILD AND VERY KINKY IN BED??...THEY LOVE TO BE FUCK...SUCKING COCKS....BUT THAT'S ONLY HAPPEN INSIDE THE ROOM....THE QUESTION IS WHY DO THEY CANT REALLY FALL FOR A SHEMALE AND MAKE US AS THEIR OWN???...I MEAN A PARTNER OR AS A COUPLE....THEY CANT EVEN FLAUNT US IN PUBLIC AS THEY ARE AFRAID THAT THEY ARE WITH A LADY BOY!!!!WHAT A SHAME!!! CAN YOU GUYS WHO LOVES COCK CANT ACCEPT THE FACT THAT YOU CAN LIVE HAPPILY WITH A SHEMALE, AS YOU CAN MAKE US WOMAN AND MAN AT THE SAME TIME......ITS TIME FOR YOU TO BE HONEST EVEN JUST TO YOUR SELF....BE PROUD FOR US BECAUSE WE ARE YOUR HAPPINESS AND NOBODY MAKES YOU HAPPY BUT "YOU" YOURSELF.......SO WHAT IF THE PEOPLE SURROUNDS YOU KNOWS THAT YOU ARE DATING...OR HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH LADY BOY???ATLEAST YOU ARE HAPPY RIGHT???....LOOSEN UP AND BE TRUTH TO YOUR SELF EVEN JUST ONCE.... If he is a client...as long as he pays right and he follows yout rules and regulations, then what else you want from him? The reason why a man is seeing an escort is he can afford to pay, he dont want any hassle cos he pays and he wants to do the things that he cant do with his wife and girlfriend( those things you said that it only will happen behind the bedroom doors). If one or two from those reasons i mentioned is not true, that guy will never see an escort....believed me darling. Its not about being a ladyboy or transexual, its about choice, personal choice of every individual. I know and i got some friends who are couple and exposed to public. As long as your happy with your life and even your alone...Guys is just anywhere. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eric60 Posted April 8, 2011 Report Share Posted April 8, 2011 Asia, I agree fully with you on both points. You have managed to sum up a lot what was posted previously. Now for the men that are genuinely interested in a ladyboy; grow up and face the world like a MAN! That includes standing up for your partner! The societal pressures on your chosen partner have or had to face were far worse! The similarities in confusion lie in my opinion more in gender (for the ladyboy) and sexuality (for the man), but both should be sorted out and answered before one engages in any meaningful relationship.... Like in any relationship; don't bring any issues with you that are not properly dealt with and learn to communicate, not just think with the genital parts (LOL) So let's live your lives, life is short enough..BUt make sure you know yourself well. Ok, no typos? hmm that's a first LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 4, 2011 Report Share Posted August 4, 2011 Gurl, Young man could be really still shy about dating trans in public, So the lesson with that is never fall inlove with young man. They are more into exploring the world by their self and exploring many different type of pussy's and ofcorzz explore sex with who ever. With old men some of them are ready and lOOking for someone special who could look after them as for them being too old man, LMAO. You know what, with what i can see, Some men used to marry women for some financial security with their company and etc.. and ofcorzz the dream to have kids, but still ofcorzz behind their wife's back who knows.. Me.... im already content with just having sex and be paid, less stressfull and dramas, Although i still used to hear and experience man approaching me and saying they want my heart etc.. blah blah blah.. all they though i believe them while im just LAUGHING OUT LOUD with their shitt words. Ok i dont want to offend all of you gentlemen but let me tell you this 8 out of 10 of you are just only into SEX agree or dissagree its my oppinion and its what ive learned from you so RESPECT MY OPPINION !!:-) the way i respected you enough and fullfil your fantasy, thank you and good evemning..... I TOTTALY AGREE WITH THAT...MOST OF MEN ARE NOT INTO TREATING TS LIKE NORMAL PERSONS IN TERMS OF DATING,BEING EVEN ONLY FRIENDS IN PUBLIC LET ALONE PARTNERS, ACCEPTING THEM AS WORK COLEAGUES OR EMPLOYEES..SO WHY BOTHER SPENDING YOUR TIME TO FIND MISTER RIGHT GIRL...U R JUST LOOSING TIME AND MONEY... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 4, 2011 Report Share Posted August 4, 2011 I have no exact term for translation in Italiano. Who are written in other posts, as I lived. I had time to hear the Queen of Night and Day circus freak with a lot of elbows to His Wife. I still write you never forget me. They Also I think I write to Paula, Lina, Mara, etc.., Etc. .. I write about it in three, calling Stefy (Hey I am to go unpunished Sabry). They Call Themselves Lover or sweet,but at home have wives and children ....... but are single. No men do not change except Those with the balls (so to speak Italian to define real gentlemen and men) are all right here That I Knew and well and regret that I had to turn .......... I love another, or Those who like me have spoken to His Wife Were questioned. First for the Sake of Those Who Leave and Those Who find bad or female, and Because The second hypocrisy and lack of respect are the qualities That a Most odious person possiede Kisses and hugs Sabrina I have no exact term for translation in Italiano. Who are written in other posts, as I lived. I had time to hear the Queen of Night and Day circus freak with a lot of elbows to His Wife. I still write you never forget me. They Also I think I write to Paula, Lina, Mara, etc.., Etc. .. I write about it in three, calling Stefy (Hey I am to go unpunished Sabry). They Call Themselves Lover or sweet,but at home have wives and children ....... but are single. No men do not change except Those with the balls (so to speak Italian to define real gentlemen and men) are all right here That I Knew and well and regret that I had to turn .......... I love another, or Those who like me have spoken to His Wife Were questioned. First for the Sake of Those Who Leave and Those Who find bad or female, and Because The second hypocrisy and lack of respect are the qualities That a Most odious person possiede Kisses and hugs Sabrina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheDM Posted August 4, 2011 Report Share Posted August 4, 2011 I rarely get into these exchanges on here, as there's too much back and forth without anything ever really being decisively solved. A lot has been said already but I thought I would just throw my 2cents in, as one does. However some clear cut pointers for anyone who cares to listen; - There is a very high possibility that anyone paying you for sexual services will not be interested in fostering anything close to a relationship with you. - If you entertain financial needs to a male that you have just met, even if they are not directly related to sexual services, he will also get cold feet. Men are not a instantly a financial proposition if you are interested in them for a commitment based relationship. - Men who are afraid, or would not wish to be seen with you in public have personal issues that would get in the way of them being able to build a long term relationship in the first place. I might add that a man not wanting to be seen with a transsexual is what I am discussing here and not a sex worker. One is an issue about their sexuality the other is about their morals and ethics. Obviously if a man has chosen to sleep with a sex worker, then it would be illogical, morally, for him to decide that he wouldn't then want to date one. As with most things in life, there is a lot of grey area. What you did and what you do don't define who you are, but they certainly impact on the path you currently take. I personally would not go out with a woman who is actively employed in the sex trade, that is just me, and I'm sure you will find men that will, however I would stake that they are not really taking the commitment issue seriously. I would however happily go out with a woman who has been involved in the sex trade, a person's past doesn't define who they are today. Also if a woman was interested in me but also showed high levels of interest in financial support early on in the relationship, I would probably think about leaving. This again is just me and the beautiful thing about this planet is that we are all allowed to have wildly different opinions as long as they are not disrespectful of others. I do understand that the culture in Asia is a lot different to here and that relationships between men and women occur based out of different wants and needs than they do in the West, however as with most things in life, there is always a happy compromise somewhere in the middle and there is always good, honest, open and frank communication between two people who care about each other. As long as you can employ both of those things in a relationship, you should never have any real issues. Just in case some of my language isn't clear, I am not directing this at anyone, I am just putting my thoughts "out there" so that people can see my point of view, and it is just that, my point of view. I'm not trying to enforce it on anyone else, I'm just telling you all what I think, so that maybe you can have a bit more insight into how some men think. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edooo Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 Excellent points Coyote and TheDM, just flawless logic and common sense, agree to 99% Its quite amusing but also sad to hear some of the tg here complain and whine about cant find good man and then trying to justify being whores and having that kind of lifestyle. And of course you will not meet a good guy who will love you and respect you as a human being, when you are little more then a talking sex toy available to anyone with money. To put it in a methaphore that you might understand: You people are like a butcher working in a meat market and wishing to to meet a nice vegetarian guy, the chances are close to 0. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 12, 2011 Report Share Posted August 12, 2011 How about we girls who live normal daily life going to work/school living a life that any normal girl lives? It's personally for me also really hard to find a good guy who want something else than my body without careing at all what's inside of it. Sometimes i think that to us come guys who want exactly the same thing than those guys using escort services paying for sex. There is only one difference between them. Those guys who come to us just doesn't want to pay for it. They come telling lies getting u believe that u mean something for him when actually... U mean nothing for them and if they happen to get what they want u are like u never existed in his life or they keep u twisted around their pinky and contact u when ever they feel like getting some tsgirl. So some way i think it's not just escort's problem it's globally a problem for any tsgirl to find a good guy. But why? From the same reason than for escorts or what's behind that? I have never wrote here before but i thought now i must cause this topic is very interesting and i want to bring my point of view about this in here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 12, 2011 Report Share Posted August 12, 2011 As a keen observer of human nature, I have come to the conclusion that many (NOT ALL!) men who are "seeking a relationship" with a TG, have not had much success with GG's. They then turn to us (TG's) assuming that we will be easier to "control" than would be a BONA FIDE woman. We will of course bend over backwards (and forwards) to accommodate, because we are desperate, hard-up push-overs, right? YES SIR, NO SIR, THREE BAGS FULL SIR... Some very sweet and kind, but sadly confused guy told me that he had not had much luck with women, so he thought he would try "us" (shemales,trannys). Said he couldn't understand women - too complicated. Women? Complicated? SWEET SUCKER OF COCKS - YOU AINT SEEN NOTHIN YET! We TG's have much, much more to deal with than "normal" folk, but then again, we are SUPERWOMEN As for the "golddigging" crap - if guys are only really interested in girls they find "pretty", why cant girls be interested in guys who are financially appealing. Gooses and Ganders want different things - so give the Gander what he wants and leave the goose to choose. QUACK QUACK! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grahamw1963 Posted August 12, 2011 Report Share Posted August 12, 2011 In defence of the silent minority who are genuine in their desire for a serious relationship, I am heartened to see that not everybody generalises here, although some appear to. In the same way that it is wrong to generalise that all TS, (escort or not), are only after a new LV handbag, it is equally wrong to assume that ALL men are secretly ashamed of their TG gf outside of the bedroom. For those of us who know who we are and are completely comfortable with what we seek, we all have our own reasons. We don't all seek 'second best' after failed GG relationships, we don't all seek a slave to control and we don't all lose interest in the person 5 minutes after sex. When the heart melts, it melts - nothing can stop that. It is a matter of supreme indifference to me whether she is a cleaner, a nurse, a Bank CEO or an escort - all of those are 'things she does, not who she is'. Some of my dearest closest friends are escorts but I have never used them as such, they are friends who I care about and return my friendship with respect. And when I meet and find my dreamgirl, I will be as proud to introduce her to my parents as any GG I have dated. And I will want to get inside her mind, heart and soul, not just her knickers! Peace to all. Discussion is always good - if we have an open mind and judge nobody but ourselves Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tikiboomI Posted August 12, 2011 Report Share Posted August 12, 2011 In defence of the silent minority who are genuine in their desire for a serious relationship, I am heartened to see that not everybody generalises here, although some appear to. In the same way that it is wrong to generalise that all TS, (escort or not), are only after a new LV handbag, it is equally wrong to assume that ALL men are secretly ashamed of their TG gf outside of the bedroom. For those of us who know who we are and are completely comfortable with what we seek, we all have our own reasons. We don't all seek 'second best' after failed GG relationships, we don't all seek a slave to control and we don't all lose interest in the person 5 minutes after sex. When the heart melts, it melts - nothing can stop that. It is a matter of supreme indifference to me whether she is a cleaner, a nurse, a Bank CEO or an escort - all of those are 'things she does, not who she is'. Some of my dearest closest friends are escorts but I have never used them as such, they are friends who I care about and return my friendship with respect. And when I meet and find my dreamgirl, I will be as proud to introduce her to my parents as any GG I have dated. And I will want to get inside her mind, heart and soul, not just her knickers! Peace to all. Discussion is always good - if we have an open mind and judge nobody but ourselves What lovely and flowery words you express here, grahamw1963; I see on your profile you have been a member here since June 2010. This "dream girl" you seek, she is proving to be quite elusive; no? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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