Guest Posted May 18, 2009 Report Share Posted May 18, 2009 If I find a cute t-girl, then I'll leave my wife. I'd prefer marriage to a t-girl now. what are you married for now than?? you would leave your wife for a TS girl..... if I was a TS girl i would never marry you because i'm sure you would leave me if you would find something better n your eyes than me .......... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted May 18, 2009 Report Share Posted May 18, 2009 Yes I would. It just seems the ultimate act of showing your love for someone regardless of gender. I fell in love with a ts girl and had such strong feelings that I told my family all about her (after discussing this with her) and also about my attraction to ts ladies. They accepted it but even if they hadn't it would of made no difference as I have no tolerance for people, even if it's family or best friends, that won't accept my partner. If the love is strong enough it's power makes you able to overcome anything. I'm still on my search for her.......... Chris Well done you. My boyfriend has the same attitude as you and girls, although I did not beleive it at first, there are some decent men out there. I hear many girls complaining that all the men they meet are just after sex etc. Well I think it's not just the men that are to be blamed (and trust me, I DO blame them too) but also us girls. The problem is that society is set up in such a way to make it almost impossible for transsexual women to prosper in any given filed othe rthan the sex industry. Hyper-sexulaised transwomen with male sex drives help perpetuate this idea that trannies are merely a sexual fantasy. Working as an escort for the past few years I have been absloutely amazed by some othe the things clients have thought it was appropriate to say in front of me. Things such as, "Thanks that was brilliant - it's been a fantasy of mine for ages. It's just not something you tell people about though is it!?" or, "I've been doing this for 20 years, but it's a big secret for me. I don't really feel attracted to real girls the same way as I am to t-girls but what can I do eh? I guess I'll have to keep lying for the rest of my life..." Why? Basically what they are saying is "Hi, yeah I fancy you, but I am ashamed of being attracted to people like you. I do not see you as a valid human being, and do not I think it is acceptable, nor do I think anyone I know would think it was accpetable, to date people like you". Do they think we don't have relationships? Do they realise that we have families and are functioning human beings too? Clearly not. But like I say, there is this extremely, ridiculously oversexed image of transsexuals out there in the collective consciousness. I intend to come off the game ove rthe next year, and try to be successful in another area in life, and contribute to society somehow, no matter how hostile it may be towards me. I recommend you ladies on here consider it too. Let's face it, no-one wants to marry someone from a group of people, ts or real girl, that constantly represent themselves as hyper-sexual beings, never out of lngerie, always sat beside some swimming pool in a pair of porno heels. Hardlu wife material is it? No wonder we, as a group, tend to attract so many twats of men simply looking for a bit of 'fun' Ladies, demand a little more respect from the men in your lives and you may just get it. I would rather be single my entire life than compromise myself by being with a men who was ashamed of me, or just wanted me for sex. And I can vouch for the fact that not all men are like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted May 18, 2009 Report Share Posted May 18, 2009 if i love why not but in my country all tv/ts girls just make sex for money they dont care love other things Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AsianBabesShemale Posted May 19, 2009 Report Share Posted May 19, 2009 Nice topic..... For me i will never believe with a guy telling me he wants to marry me not until i am wearing gown and walking in the aisle while waiting for to meet him... Guys complain about ts only always want sex for money,But dont you know that happens becouse of your own fault if you use common sens you will know what i mean..!! its just kinda hard to accept that base on most experienec of TS,we learned and we used it..!!! Fair enough guys want sex and we do need cash to support our selves.... its isnt soo cheap to be TS and most of all,its isnt easy to be TS.... for me... Id like and love to be merrried with my man if he offer me,but will never believe not until it happens..!! until soon",) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted May 19, 2009 Report Share Posted May 19, 2009 Most TS-es want and hope to marry the guy that they love.... But guys only want to have fun and leave.... And many of us does not really love money but we need that kind of money for our medical usage and operations. Me too... Also hoping to be able to get marry... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted May 19, 2009 Report Share Posted May 19, 2009 Good question, i was thinking about it long long time. First to marry someone you should fall in love with, and for that you need someone special. I mean how to fall in love with escort. Sorry but that is fact, she doing that for money and u never can be sure in her feelings. I never had Ts Girlfriend, because i am new in all this with ts, i consider my self pretty str8 guy because i like girls too. But with time i just got bored from girls and then i find out ts, who turn me on much more then just normal girls. And i repeat, to fall in love with someone you have to know her for long time, to spend much time with, and its not possible if she watching on watch and waiting for new client. But if T-girl is Beautiful, cute, sexy and dont fucking for money, and if i really fall in love, then YES i would like to marry her, even meet with my family, i dont fucking care what other people think about me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alyssaluxor Posted May 19, 2009 Report Share Posted May 19, 2009 Owww its always been a dream of mine to get married, anyone out there who want to marry me im willing to give my virginity for the right guy jeje Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fearles Posted May 19, 2009 Report Share Posted May 19, 2009 really alyssa ??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted May 19, 2009 Report Share Posted May 19, 2009 Owww its always been a dream of mine to get married, anyone out there who want to marry me im willing to give my virginity for the right guy jeje What i get if i marry u? I wish to get 6 cows, 1 bull, at least 40 sheep and piece of ground for our anymals in your village! Of course Your virginity is not questioned, you have to be virgin if you wish to get married, and i believe you are! I can see in your eyes LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 5, 2009 Report Share Posted June 5, 2009 Honestly, marriage in my opinion is still a strong concept. Although it has gone from traditional definition to more diverse with the new millenium, I still regard marriage as something that is sacred, permanent and all about connection between two individuals. My view of marriage involving TS/TG is ironically against it. The purpose of a marriage is when two people find that special connection that they would want to spend the rest of their lives and child/children will have to be a part of that equation. If you wanna get married simply because of being married, then you do not understand the sacred meaning of it. I guess time can clearly indicate whether you are ready to be married. I know a few people who lived their lives as a couple for more than 10 yrs without marrying each other. They were content and most importantly happy. I also know couples who were married but divorced within 2 years. Which ones of these two different scenarios really defined marriage? You tell me. Another issue is children, which plays an important issue. Straight marriages would and mostly have children down the line and thus indicate the 'sacred' bit of my defination. True, there are marriages that last without children, which only indicate companionship. And this is where the TS/gay marriages come into. Adoption is merely a mean of boosting up that marriage. The bottom line is, marriage is actually a complex subject and its not something that anyone can clearly said whether they would or would not marry a specific gender (be it gay/TS/straight). Because someone could say he won't but would meet his soulmate down the line and bingo. Whereas another might say he would but never ever met that soulmate and died alone. In conclusion, marriage is something that I probably would not do although the woman in me would very much want to experience it at least once in my life. I feel that (and stressed out it is only my opinion) it is too sacred and permanent and I am not capable of defying that traditional meaning. Maybe in my later years I might consider but it will and only purely be as a mean of companionship with that special someone for our old age retirement incentives. Cheers xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
okanoque Posted June 25, 2009 Report Share Posted June 25, 2009 I would marry one...no problems...although marriage for me is just a piece of paper. No need for a priest to say amen about my lovelife Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 25, 2009 Report Share Posted June 25, 2009 Hmmmmmm NOBODY WANNA MARRY A FUK UP TS LIKE ME LOLzzz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 27, 2009 Report Share Posted June 27, 2009 oh really its my dream...i really would to marry you, joyceforever! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 27, 2009 Report Share Posted June 27, 2009 Marry, huh, get a life!!!! Have a weekend with all the sexy ts-girls here, one at a time, that is heaven. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 27, 2009 Report Share Posted June 27, 2009 Marry, huh, get a life!!!! Have a weekend with all the sexy ts-girls here, one at a time, that is heaven. LOLzzz GOOD FOR YOU GRANDPA!!!! Gangbang with TS ..... poink..poink!!! Hmmmm YOU'RE A PERFECT EXAMPLE OF A PLAYER!!!!!!! LOLzZz GOOD LUCK! !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 15, 2009 Report Share Posted July 15, 2009 Ya know when u think about it. If a person loves another person, you dont have to marry. Why is marriage a necessity? Why must a person get married if they love each other. If you love her, you just love her. You dont have to marry her. Its just a ceremony. Nothing more. Its just that we've been taught since young that marriage = love. But NO! Love = love. So the real question is, Would u love a T girl for the rest of your life? Or would u even love a t girl and not treat her like a sex object. I think to show you love someone, you will always try to be there for that person when she needs you in financial and emotional needs! To give and take. To appreciate her and respect her as a person by calling a few times to see how she is or tell her u love her whenever. AND ESPECIALLY TO BE HONEST. And you dont have to worry about sex with t girls. They're as horny as guys. And they're more direct about it. Girls are just as horny but they're cunning little snakes. You have to hold their neck steady, strip them and tie a rope around their head to prevent them from biting and den poke them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave40 Posted July 17, 2009 Report Share Posted July 17, 2009 Yeah, I'd marry a T-Girl. Would have to be a "post op" girl though. Not interested in any other type of T-girls. Hope I'm not offending anyone with my remarks?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 18, 2009 Report Share Posted July 18, 2009 Pre-op, post-op, or natural woman. it really doesn't matter to me. love is love. you can't deny it. that's why i broadened my search. beauty is both inner and outer. so my answer is yes i would marry a t-girl. you can't deny soul mates.. i've learned that and i hope others realize it it too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 19, 2009 Report Share Posted July 19, 2009 So, having established the value of gay marriage, why are people so opposed to it? Many of the reasons offered for opposing gay marriage are based on the assumption that gays have a choice in who they can feel attracted to, and the reality is quite different. Many people actually believe that gays could simply choose to be heterosexual if they wished. But the reality is that very few do have a choice -- any more than very few heterosexuals could choose which sex to find themselves attracted to. Additionally, many people continue to believe that homosexuality is about nothing but sex, considering it to be merely a sexual perversion. The reality is that homosexuality is multidimensional, and is much more about love and affection than it is about sex. And this is what gay relationships are based on -- mutual attraction, love and affection. Sex is a means of expressing that love, just the same as it is for heterosexuals. Being gay is much more profound than simply a sexual relationship; being gay is part of that person's core indentity, and goes right the very center of his being. It's like being black in a society of whites, or a blonde European in a nation of black-haired Asians. Yes, being gay is just that profound to the person who is. This is something that few heterosexuals can understand unless they are a minority themselves. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pat Smith Posted July 19, 2009 Report Share Posted July 19, 2009 So, having established the value of gay marriage, why are people so opposed to it? Many of the reasons offered for opposing gay marriage are based on the assumption that gays have a choice in who they can feel attracted to, and the reality is quite different. Many people actually believe that gays could simply choose to be heterosexual if they wished. But the reality is that very few do have a choice -- any more than very few heterosexuals could choose which sex to find themselves attracted to. Additionally, many people continue to believe that homosexuality is about nothing but sex, considering it to be merely a sexual perversion. The reality is that homosexuality is multidimensional, and is much more about love and affection than it is about sex. And this is what gay relationships are based on -- mutual attraction, love and affection. Sex is a means of expressing that love, just the same as it is for heterosexuals. Being gay is much more profound than simply a sexual relationship; being gay is part of that person's core indentity, and goes right the very center of his being. It's like being black in a society of whites, or a blonde European in a nation of black-haired Asians. Yes, being gay is just that profound to the person who is. This is something that few heterosexuals can understand unless they are a minority themselves. A nice posting as a matter of fact, however, it is only barely connected to what people have been discussing over here. The nature of this discussion so far was as follows: A few machos who thought they'd impress and attract a transsexual girl by stating that they are willing to marry her yet they never ever really cared about the problems which transgendered people are facing and instead are only curious and interested in making their sexual fantasies come true, a bunch of girls whose job it is to make the dreams of these jerks come true and made them drool and a few people who actually gave thought to this discussion yet they were unheard and totally ignored were trying to discuss a topic which would be totally meaningless if society were not as narrow-minded as it is, because the truth is that a transsexual girl is also just a girl who as it is is also just looking for some love in her life and anyone who tries to quetion this fact by differentiating and raising questions such as "Would you marry a 'tgirl'?" or "What music do tgirls like?" is totally ignoring basic principles of life, nature, love, feelings, emotions and scientific findings. What the hell's wrong with these people? Aren't we all just people? Are they living on an island, totally isolated from the rest of the world or from real life? Without a doubt we have to respect people who know something about transsexuality and who still choose not to be involved with one but those would not come to this site anyway...the problem is that 99% of the guys over here want just sex4free yet they still don't want to be discredited in public by being seen with a transsexual girl and who don't even think of a transsexual girl as of a real girl but as of a sex object taken from their sexual fantasies and projected to the real world, an insensitive image without any kind of feelings and rights which is meant to serve them. It's just a bunch of huge ignorant cowards and this is the only reason why the question of marrying a ts girl could have been raised. In a world of thoughtfulness, reason and of a healthy society this could never ever be subject of discussion because everyone would accept any other just in the way the other wants to be seen as and nobody would give a thought to who it is not good to be seen with. Every person on this planet could just be with anyone he likes and get married if both wanted that. So that's maybe the only thought the last posting really has to do with this topic. Anyway, the only thing which is for certain in our sadly non-utopian world is that real love will always find its way, no matter what (as long as we are open for receiving and embracing it as well as giving it to those who love us). Everything else is non-sense and we all know that only few guys over here will answer the given question truthfully which again makes me sick....but I'm probably just repeating what I've said in an earlier posting, anyway... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orangeblush Posted July 20, 2009 Report Share Posted July 20, 2009 I did some research about the same-sex partnerships. The complete list of the countries that have lagalised the partnership is: Finland, Sweden, Norway, Denmark, Iceland, Luxemburg, France, Spain, Germany, Poland, Switzerland, Belgium and Netherlands. Uk is about to join the club later this year. As a result, for more than half of the citizens of EU it is possible to register the same-sex partnership. HI MADAM, INTERESTING POST!! QUESTIONS PLEASE? SO, SAME SEX MARRIAGE IS LEGAL IN THESE COUNTRIES..? HOW ABOUT IN U.S? SITUATION EXAMPLE: U SAID "SSM" IS ALLOWED IN GERMANY.. GUY IS GERMAN, TS GF IS ASIAN.. THEY WANNA GET MARRIED..APPARENTLY IN GERMANY..THEREFORE,TS GF HAS TO GO TO GERMANY AND GO THROUGH SOME PROCESSES.. QUESTION: THERE IS TOURIST VISA, WORKING VISA, FIANCEE VISA ETC.. I THINK U KNOW WHAT I MEAN.. HOW DOES IT GO WHEN IT COMES TO THE SAME SEX MARRIAGE ISSUE? IS THERE SUCH THING AS "SAME SEX MARRIAGE VISA?" ISN'T IT ODD?? (LOLS..SOME OF YOU GUYS MAYBE LAUGHING) SO HOW'S THAT? WHAT ARE THE PROCESSES THE COUPLE WOULD UNDERGO TO BE FINALLY LEGALLY MARRIED? AND THE LAWS ABOUT IT? IS THE LEGALITY BEING HONORED ONLY IN THE COUNTRY WHERE U GOT MARRIED IN..ETC??? OR CAN ANYONE TELL ME MORE ABOUT IT? P.S --I AM NOT WELL INFORMED ABOUT THESE ISSUES.. MORE POWER MS. AMOR POWER!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pat Smith Posted July 21, 2009 Report Share Posted July 21, 2009 I did some research about the same-sex partnerships. The complete list of the countries that have lagalised the partnership is: Finland, Sweden, Norway, Denmark, Iceland, Luxemburg, France, Spain, Germany, Poland, Switzerland, Belgium and Netherlands. Uk is about to join the club later this year. As a result, for more than half of the citizens of EU it is possible to register the same-sex partnership. HI MADAM, INTERESTING POST!! QUESTIONS PLEASE? SO, SAME SEX MARRIAGE IS LEGAL IN THESE COUNTRIES..? HOW ABOUT IN U.S? SITUATION EXAMPLE: U SAID "SSM" IS ALLOWED IN GERMANY.. GUY IS GERMAN, TS GF IS ASIAN.. THEY WANNA GET MARRIED..APPARENTLY IN GERMANY..THEREFORE,TS GF HAS TO GO TO GERMANY AND GO THROUGH SOME PROCESSES.. QUESTION: THERE IS TOURIST VISA, WORKING VISA, FIANCEE VISA ETC.. I THINK U KNOW WHAT I MEAN.. HOW DOES IT GO WHEN IT COMES TO THE SAME SEX MARRIAGE ISSUE? IS THERE SUCH THING AS "SAME SEX MARRIAGE VISA?" ISN'T IT ODD?? (LOLS..SOME OF YOU GUYS MAYBE LAUGHING) SO HOW'S THAT? WHAT ARE THE PROCESSES THE COUPLE WOULD UNDERGO TO BE FINALLY LEGALLY MARRIED? AND THE LAWS ABOUT IT? IS THE LEGALITY BEING HONORED ONLY IN THE COUNTRY WHERE U GOT MARRIED IN..ETC??? OR CAN ANYONE TELL ME MORE ABOUT IT? P.S --I AM NOT WELL INFORMED ABOUT THESE ISSUES.. MORE POWER MS. AMOR POWER!!! First off the list is not complete and partly incorrect. The constitution of Poland limits marriage to genetic woman/man. On the other hand countries like the Czech Republic, Hungary and Slovenia, just to mention a few examples have legalized registered partnership in the same way Germany and the other mentioned countries have. Most of the UK also grants and recognizes registered partnership. However there is a great BUT for most of these countries. Registered partnership is NOT exactly the same as same-sex marriage. The real same-sex marriage is only legalized and granted in Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, Norway, South Africa, Spain and Sweden. Where is the difference? Registered partnership only provides some rights for the partner among which are the right to inherit personal belongings and money after the partner has died. The law however will not recognize u as a married couple. Same-sex marriage is the whole package, it's got everything a real marriage has and also it's consequences. To answer your question about the USA: Only in some states same-sex marriage is legal and granted, those are Connecticut, Iowa and Massachusetts, soon also in the regions of Maine, New Hapshire and Vermont. I repeat that same-sex marriage is not granted in Germany, only just registered partnership. For the process of marriage there is also no such thing as registered partnership visa or ssm visa but obviously no-one can keep u away from marriage respectively stepping into registered partnership with someone when u get any other visa. In those states where ssm is granted and recognized u will also be able to stay as long as ur partner has the nationality of the country where u will get married. That should usually also be provided in countries where registered partnership is granted but rights may vary in different countries. SSM is not being granted BUT recognized in Aruba, Israel, the Netherlands Antilles and in the US-states of the District of Columbia and New York. Registered partnership is being granted and recognized in some regions of: Argentina, Australia, Mexico, the USA and Venezuela. It is being recognized but not granted on the Isle of Man (UK) and the rest of the Mexican regions. I hope this could help u a bit. Have a nice day Pat Smith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 21, 2009 Report Share Posted July 21, 2009 yes i will marrie with transexual or transvestite and i search for right person hope to find soon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alyssaluxor Posted July 22, 2009 Report Share Posted July 22, 2009 Wow very interesting and informative post so theres really a possibility to get married its always been my dream where are you guys? So guys from these countries Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, Norway, South Africa, Spain and Sweden if you want to marry me just message me and ill be a good girl to you lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
victoria1985 Posted July 22, 2009 Report Share Posted July 22, 2009 Hmmmmmm NOBODY WANNA MARRY A FUK UP TS LIKE ME LOLzzz love only comes to those who believe... you are not a fuck up shemale.... you are gorgeous!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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