Looking For A Trans Date Online? Here’s A List Of Red Flags You Should Always Ke
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It’s finally happening. Your quest for love has seen you explore what the internet has to offer. You’ve signed up with a few dating apps. You’re hopeful that before long, you’ll find the love of your life. There’s a cut though. You’re not just any kind of a hopeless romantic. You’re into transgendered people. The way you see it, you could be a transgender too someday. You now feel ready to try something serious with a transgendered person. You’ve been with several transsexual escorts so you’re not entirely new to what that kind of intimacy or love should feel like. Be careful though. Get intrigued, infatuated and mind-blown all you want. That’s because each online profile you come across will most likely leave you stunned. Be keen though as you go through different profiles. Be particularly keen the moment you initiate a conversation with a prospect. In short, be on the lookout for the following red flags.
Asks About Money Right Away
Money is and will always be an emotive issue even in well established, solid and well-grounded relationships. It may make your work a little bit easier if you have lots of it to spend. You certainly won’t need to do much in terms of impressing a prospect. But what happens when a prospect asks for money shortly after you start flirting? Any rational person should consider such a move a huge red flag. Note that even the lowest of the low ts escorts hardly ever ask for money right away.
She could be the sexiest trans you’ve ever seen. She could have a way with words too. But if you ever need palpable evidence that you’re about to deal with a gold-digger, the ‘send me money’ is it. Be wary of such requests. Be extra cautious if you’re a generally kind person. If you really have to send money, then spend what you’re willing to write off as bad debt. The last thing you want to go through as you search for love is having a prospect prey on your kindness. You end with a dent deep inside as well as one inside your pockets.
They Warn You
This doesn’t happen quite often but it is a red flag all the same. The rule of the thumb here is a simple one. If someone tell you that they’re trouble, hard to handle or untameable, believe it. Feel sorry for them but don’t try to fix anything. It really isn’t your job trying to fix someone who already acknowledges that they are messed up. Note that it is one thing for someone to acknowledge they bad and go ahead to request for help. It is another thing for someone to admit they’re a mess and remain adamant that they are comfortable in their mess. Try fix such a person and you could very well end in the same mess or worse still, end up depressed and with a heartbreak.
They Proclaim Love Right Away
Love at first sight exists and it is a beautiful thing. But what happens when someone you’ve never met claims they love you? The best you can do here is to stay alert. Logic demands that you can’t really fall in love after a few texts or calls. It doesn’t end there. Love isn’t really a noun. Be keen on what the person says and how they generally behave after professing love. Do they ask for a favour shortly after dropping the four letter word? For how long do they keep the conversation going? You’ll quickly notice that shortly after professing love, a request for some kind of monetary favour ensues. Ignore the request and you never hear from the same person again. Don’t feel bad about it. Think of it as good riddance to stinky rubbish.
They Refuse To Send Their Pictures
It’s been days of endless chatting. You’ve taken the whole thing to a new level so you don’t even mind calling each other pet names like ‘honey’ or ‘babe’. You call each other randomly throughout the day. It strikes you as strange though that each time you request for a photo, excuses trickle in. There are two likely scenarios here. Either the person you’re chatting with is what experts refer to as a ‘catfish’ or they’re simply wasting your time. In case of the latter, you need to be extra cautious solely because catfish accounts are often used to swindle the gullible. Still on pictures, don’t be too quick to send yours the moment you sense the other party is unwilling to exchange theirs.
Vague Profiles
You must’ve already seen this if you’ve had an experience with an escort shemale agency operating online. A profile that really doesn’t have anything to offer. Note that the profile factor is a bid deal solely because it gives you a glimpse of someone’s personality. It is to a prospect what a trailer is to a movie.
But what exactly makes up a vague profile? It is simple –what kind of a profile picture does the profile you’re looking at have? Is it a celebrity’s image? Does the profile uses a pseudonym? Many dating sites usually profile ample tables to fill so you can have someone know a thing or two about you. These include hobbies, your height, complexion etc etc. If the profile you’re looking at features vague answers like ‘ask me’ or something rude like ‘none of your business’, then keep off. If someone is really serious about finding love online, they’ll take time to feel up their profiles. Likewise, if one has nothing to offer on something basic as an online profile, then maybe they really have nothing to offer when you meet. Keep off. Skip onto the next profile.
They Still Talk About Their Ex
Everyone has a past. Some have not so good histories while others have what easily be termed as a ‘good’ past. More often than not, ex-lovers form part of people’s histories. That’s just life. You love and love back, things don’t work out as you thought they would so you part ways. For any sane person, letting go in a bid to start off afresh is always an idea in the offing. Accept that a relationship is over then look forward to starting one all over again. Carrying on remnants of a previous relationship into a new relationship will certainly ruin what would’ve turned out to be a beautiful relationship.
Unless your prospect asks about your ex, you don’t have any business talking about it. Think of it as one of those things you never ever talk about unless you’re asked to. Now turn things around. You meet a prospect online. They’re good at first. Suddenly, the ex-factor comes into the picture. Your prospect now can’t stop talking about their ex. The prospect is either complaining or worse, compares you to her ex. You don’t need any other prove that the person is still in love with her ex or in denial that the relationship ended. Do not tolerate that kind of talk. As a matter of fact, cut off links with such a prospect. You’re being used as a rebound. Be kind enough to suggest a night or two with shemale escorts then hit the road.
Too Much Flattery
It’s okay to flatter a trans escorts all you want. At the end of the day, you’re paying to be with them. When it comes to online dating though, the ball game changes. You’re now talking to a prospect. That means you have to show some seriousness at some point. You have to exude some humour too, so don’t be way too serious. Be keen instead on how much you’re flattered.
You’ve just initiated a chat for the first time ever. This is a person you’ve never met before. 5 minutes into the chat and you’re already flattered with pet names like ‘honey’, ‘sweetheart’ or ‘pumpkin’. This is certainly a red flag you should avoid. Sure, you could enjoy the sweet talk and the pet names but don’t let them get into your head. Too much flattery could very well be an attempt to lure you into a toxic relationship.
It so happens that you can easily end up with someone you genuinely like. Everything goes on well and the pet naming comes along. Now, you don’t mind the person at all. As a matter of fact, you think you’ll soon go out on a date with her. You just can’t stand too much flattery. Note this – nothing stops you from airing out your concerns. You should of course, do it in a respectful way and let the other person know you’re uncomfortable with too much flattery. Remember, you have nothing to lose. Look at it from the brighter angle – you’re simply setting boundaries.
Wrap Up
Meeting a transgendered prospect online may sound easy. Like you’ll find out however, it calls for wits and extreme use of logic. You must take time to weed out the real ones from the fake ones. This may not be easy, but it is doable. You only need to heed to all the aforementioned tips.
