QueenAthina

good one but... ...allow me to paraphrase dear.... You are not gay, you just have "different" taste!!

Who cares? I do. Please keep the gay stuff on the side of the room that appreciates it. Thank you in advance. well Tiki...maybe I wasnt clear enough. What I wrote solely expresses MY personal beliefs and attitude towards sexuality shaped by experiences and research! it's definitely NOT a canon! this is how I see my self, as a transsexual (NOT TRANSGENDER! NOT MALE NOR FEMALE)...and certainly that doesnt apply to every tgirl...especially if the tgirl considers herself a complete female identical to a genetic female! my point of view goes to show that not all tgirls think or feel the same regarding their sexuality! my case might be rare or even unique but that doesnt mean that I am a less of a transsexual! just beacause I dont see myself as a woman/man/gay, bi, straight but as a transsexual (something like a 3rd gender) doesnt necessarily mean that I exclude myself from the tgirls' space! it's a different cosmotheory , like a transsexual feminism (or shoud i say transsexualism!)...deriving mostly from psychological and ideological premises rather than a sexual (active/passive/vers etc.) or an aesthetic(straight/gay-like) stance . ...having to choose the male OR female archetype is way too suffocating for me...thus, if i cannot associate myself with either how could I see men as straight, gay or bi? words invented to describe sexual behavior & aesthetics directed to the two aforementioned genders!!! maybe the word that best describes a man who is into transsexuals is PANSEXUAL: anyone who could engage in sexual acts with any person regardless GENDER as long as that person fits his/her aesthetic criteria! ...case closed!!! tgirls' lovers, you now know how to label your sexuality...when somebody asks you if you are straight/gay or bi...just say: I AM A (passive/active/vers) PANSEXUAL!!! ..clear enough? xxx QA Well, Queen Athina, there is no need to get all huffy with Tiki's Boom. If you re-read my initial response, no where did I accuse you of speaking for all. I'm quite certain I also included information pertaining to there being a spectrum of sexuality within the transsexual female demographic, and even further elaborated about a specific subset having to do with the genetic female demographic. No where did I infer that you were not included in that spectrum. If you felt that I did so, I apologize, perhaps I should have been more clear. You asked, "Clear enough?" I don't recall asking for a personal declaration of how you express yourself sexually, butt since you went there, I am intrigued by your definition and personal identification as a "third sex." Yes dear, your response was crystal clear, and I would like to learn more about the third sex identity; provided you are open to having such a discussion. I am willing to do this here in the forum or privately; I would enjoy it very much. Your description about the third sex opened my mind to an idea, that until now, I thought was a bunch of hooey. I have used the expression "a male/female hybrid" which appears to be exactly how you define yourself, although expressing it in the way that I did may have come across as irreverent. Until your revelation, I had my own ideas about the concept of a third sex, mostly having to do with ideas stemming from political and economical segregation. If you find that expression to be offensive, again, I apologize and will refrain from using it in this and all other discussions. I am an adult; I'm not perfect; however, I do assume responsibility for mistakes that I personally have made. This is how we learn; no? I am hopeful we can continue this discussion openly, as in some small way doing so may alleviate some of the confusion that seems to permeate this community. I also desire that we cast defensiveness aside and engage with one another in a way that is meaningful and authentic. This is just an open neutral discussion nothing else... ...again I always present personal thoughts and i dont represent any group or gender other than my own , the 3rd one! ..and dear Tiki, I wasnt offended by your posts, no need to be apologetic! as long as you express your personal views on this issue we can continue our little constructive dialogue! You see, I dont consider my self as a hybrid (i'm not a machine). Being a transsexual (the 3rd gender) entails more than just sexuality or genitals! It's a psychological and mental state above all! When I'm being considered a female/or male there is something missing ...I feel incomplete. Mentally I feel at ease when I see myself as a duality , a complete gender (not half and half)...not a freak but a whole entity in its own merits & rights! I'm offended when someone casts me as gay as much as i'm offended when someone casts me as female! I'm more than that. Some of my attributes might be considered feminine and others masculine! but all of them are intertwined! and that makes me feel like i dont belong to either of the 2 sexes! Gender is indeed a state of mind! It seems that you consider any man who is aroused sexually by anal penetration gay!\ Anthropologists and Psychologists declared that anal stimulation has nothing to do with sexuality! I totally agree! I dont label men by their sexual behavior...but if i have to then I need to find out what their aesthetic criteria for choosing a sexual partner are! From my experience most of the men i have met (sexually or not) seem to be pansexuals! they will be aroused by a variety of stimuli not just a pussy or cock! for instance i have a client who is totally passive when with me but when his girlfriend participates he is transformed into this wild masculine beast and asserts an active role with her while i'm watching! this and many other cases have made me realised that male sexuality cannot be analysed as a black & white phenomenon! this is the reason that i dont believe in associating gay/straight labels with sexual behavior. If I want to be classified as something different not male not female why not classified men who like tgirls as something different as well? Men like us for who we are , not necessarily for resembling one or the other gender! ofcourse some of them would like to suck our cock or get fucked or lick our boobs or ass or kiss us...there is nothing wrong with that! after all having a cock is part of me...it's one of the basic elements that make me a transsexual! Denying it or hiding it is like trying to deny my identity as a complete gender, a transsexual! On the contrary, i'm proud of my cock & boobs, i'm proud of being different , i'm proud because of my duality! I consider mimicking or trying to emulate the female archetype demeaning! likewise when a man tells me that i look like a woman i get offended!!! no no no ...I AM A TRANSSEXUAL! and I'm a whole being as such not half of this half of that! lol QA

...exactly!! ....a point i forgot to mention in my previous post! What's with the GAY term all the time??? is it still a taboo? even for men who r actually members of a TS site? get over it people! GROW UP! there are a lot of hypocrites out there, and we surely dont want them in this site! ..it's funny that men who like tgirls tend to treat GAYNESS like a pest!! "i'm not gay , i only like a chick with dick....bigger the better!"..."i'm not gay, i only like to fuck trannies and jerk them off!"...SO? WHO ASKED YOU? WHO CARES???? The only thing i care about is how well men treat me sexually...i dont give a s...t if they label themselves gay, bi, straight, ufos, rabbits, carrots or silicon lovers! Rationalizing your sexual behavior (a purely instinctive nature) is a dead end...it's like trying to taste food from your nose!! oh yes...exactly that!!! cheerios! xxx QA Who cares? I do. Please keep the gay stuff on the side of the room that appreciates it. Thank you in advance. well Tiki...maybe I wasnt clear enough. What I wrote solely expresses MY personal beliefs and attitude towards sexuality shaped by experiences and research! it's definitely NOT a canon! this is how I see my self, as a transsexual (NOT TRANSGENDER! NOT MALE NOR FEMALE)...and certainly that doesnt apply to every tgirl...especially if the tgirl considers herself a complete female identical to a genetic female! my point of view goes to show that not all tgirls think or feel the same regarding their sexuality! my case might be rare or even unique but that doesnt mean that I am a less of a transsexual! just beacause I dont see myself as a woman/man/gay, bi, straight but as a transsexual (something like a 3rd gender) doesnt necessarily mean that I exclude myself from the tgirls' space! it's a different cosmotheory , like a transsexual feminism (or shoud i say transsexualism!)...deriving mostly from psychological and ideological premises rather than a sexual (active/passive/vers etc.) or an aesthetic(straight/gay-like) stance . ...having to choose the male OR female archetype is way too suffocating for me...thus, if i cannot associate myself with either how could I see men as straight, gay or bi? words invented to describe sexual behavior & aesthetics directed to the two aforementioned genders!!! maybe the word that best describes a man who is into transsexuals is PANSEXUAL: anyone who could engage in sexual acts with any person regardless GENDER as long as that person fits his/her aesthetic criteria! ...case closed!!! tgirls' lovers, you now know how to label your sexuality...when somebody asks you if you are straight/gay or bi...just say: I AM A (passive/active/vers) PANSEXUAL!!! ..clear enough? xxx QA

...exactly!! ....a point i forgot to mention in my previous post! What's with the GAY term all the time??? is it still a taboo? even for men who r actually members of a TS site? get over it people! GROW UP! there are a lot of hypocrites out there, and we surely dont want them in this site! ..it's funny that men who like tgirls tend to treat GAYNESS like a pest!! "i'm not gay , i only like a chick with dick....bigger the better!"..."i'm not gay, i only like to fuck trannies and jerk them off!"...SO? WHO ASKED YOU? WHO CARES???? The only thing i care about is how well men treat me sexually...i dont give a s...t if they label themselves gay, bi, straight, ufos, rabbits, carrots or silicon lovers! Rationalizing your sexual behavior (a purely instinctive nature) is a dead end...it's like trying to taste food from your nose!! oh yes...exactly that!!! cheerios! xxx QA

....for all of you out there who r constantly wondering about sexuality...here is the answer: OUR EXPERIENCES MAKE US WISER NOT MERE SPECULATION! all the best! xxx QA

hmmmmmmmm..... ....so a guy who fantasizes my cock beforehand and eventualy sucks my cock is GAY ...and a guy who looks into my eyes first and says he loves me and eventualy sucks my cock is heterosexual!!! REALLY?????? OH COME ON!!! ....baby you are too young and obviously with limited experiences regarding tgirls!! ...you use terms loosely thus leading to confusing, not to say idiotic, arguments! ...I've been with many many men and I dont really care how they see me but how they treat me sexually! If they see me as a male or female has no meaning to me...i'm a TGIRL and that's all...i dont feel like a female or male... I AM A TRANSSEXUAL ! i never felt like a woman never wanted to change my gender never felt like a male either! I like my dual nature and it's probably 50-50! more like ying & yang ! ...I dont think that men take advantage of me...IT'S MY CHOICE to be a tgirl (i was not born with boobs and a french nose!) and I certainly choose to be a sexual "object"...that gives me power...and yes I USE MEN for my pleasure and i'm getting payed for that...a double gratification! This all-empowering experience has nothing to do with a helpless prostitute who is being used for peanuts, uses drugs and she is managed by trafficking pimps! IT'S MY CHOICE to be as horny as lusty as demanding as I desire! No man sets my boundaries, no man can impose his orders on me, no man overrules my sexual and financial demands!\ so u see dear, we are not all the same!! likewise not all men see in us and admire the same attributes! ...the way you express your thoughts shows how limited your angles on sexuality is! there is not only MALE or FEMALE but TGIRLS as well....like in the GAY world they r is not only one type of gay man but several (twinks , bears, old, blond, hairy etc.)...\\ so if I extent your limited thought a little bit...a gay man who likes bears instead of twinks is more GAY than others....likewise a male who likes butch women or small breast or hairy women is GAY!!! so what if a guy likes to suck a cock but aesthetically is not aroused by a male figure!!! i like female breast and a woman's ass, but i dont like women!! does that make me a crypto-heterosexual???? hahahaha!!! Who cares about labels, more this less that...so infantile!!! Sexual behavior is directed by our taste and aesthetics baby...NOT GENDER necessarily !!! It's time to view sexuality as a very perplexed phenomenon who cannot be generalized! limited BLACK & WHITE argumentation leads to fallacies and misconceptions...not to say bigotry and racism!!! I'M A TRANSEXUAL ...so since there is no generally accepted societal term to characterize men who like MY TYPE lets leave limited terminology out of this site.... this kind of threads have no substance whatsoever...as the terming and labeling of sexual behavior should be focused on each individual and not groups of same sex likeness! In other words just because i like men/women or tgirls that doesnt mean i like sexually all types of men / women or tgirls ...and that should make me less or more gay / straight/ bi than others...so labelling is totally unreliable!!! ....and what makes me 100% positive that each one of us has a different sexuality??? 2 university degrees(psychology is one of them), 10 years of escorting and most importantly an OPEN MIND! xxx QA ps as i once posted in this forum...6 billions human beings out there...6 billions different or similar (but almost never identical) sexualities!!!

.....oh yes... same story like last year....a friend of mine was kept in dubai for 3 months!! is it really worth it?? I DONT THINK SO!!! btw...if someone is willing to spend 300-1000e for a ts, i think he would probably have the money to fly to athens and see me and spend 1-2 days sightseeing as well!!!! ...i'm not taking the risk for any amount of money!!! ......... kiss QA

.....the answer to your qs is obvious dear!!! NO MONEY ...NO HONEY!!!! ....really...how many Egyptians will be willing to pay 200-300e/hr to see a TS escort?????? also...how secure is to work in such an ultra-conservative place??? ....i think that gives you the right perspective dear!!! kiss QA

...so , why is this account still visible on the top TGirls list????? xxxx QA

dear, the banner is ok....but i think it should more revealing and kinkier! ...after all, we r trans....NOT WOMEN! ...men who r into us, I suppose, do know what i mean!!! kiss QA

for a week or 2 i recommend: Hyde Park Suites dear! ...this is a place where i stay when in London...close to 500-700GBP/week but very accessible to clients next to bayswater tube station (Hyde park location) with intercom/wifi and close to shops! ...although dear, London rates have dropped recently (from 200GBP/hr 2yrs ago to 120-150)...due to the recession and the competition! have fun! xxxx QA Hyde Park Suites

...thanks GF !!! I think it's only fair for everyone!! no misunderstandings no bitterness no hassles!! a plain YES or SKIP!!! and no numerical ratings like 4.923455 ..hehehehe!! just #1, #2 etc. ...that will be an excellent tool to avoid haters and malicious "queens" !! ...dont forget....rating is for the PIC not for the ESCORT or person! so...it's easy to choose between I LIKE or SKIP! it's just a pic after all... xxx QA

...or ...she is not an escort!!! and doesnt care to meet men in that way (as clients)...that's a possibility too!! NOT ALL TS R ESCORTS...SOME HAVE OTHER JOBS!!! xxx QA

i really dont get this! Hey Admin, I thought only premium members could rate others...or at least members who 've been in the site for a long time and r reliable, not shadows! I think it is time to change rating system altogether...make it: "do you like this pic?" YES (or 5) or NEXT profile!! plain and simple!! the profiles who get more YES r on the top !!! What do you think colleagues and Admin??? Fair enough, right???