Am I Missing Something?

[MondClassic]

I am certain I will get flamed and that's ok.

 

I am new to the board and am puzzled. I hear in the chat room (which could use some improvements) that the ladies are tired of being treated like a piece of meat by the men on the site. That all the ladies are not pay for play, and I respect that.

 

But shortly after beginning an offline conversation, I am getting hit up for money/gifts/whatever. Maybe it is just me?

 

But I am more than open for advice here and am seriously asking for help.

 

Ladies, I am all ears..... well, almost.

 

Mond

[User701]

I am certain I will get flamed and that's ok. 

 

I am new to the board and am puzzled.  I hear in the chat room (which could use some improvements) that the ladies are tired of being treated like a piece of meat by the men on the site.  That all the ladies are not pay for play, and I respect that.

 

But shortly after beginning an offline conversation, I am getting hit up for money/gifts/whatever.  Maybe it is just me? 

 

But I am more than open for advice here and am seriously asking for help. 

 

Ladies, I am all ears..... well, almost.   

 

Mond

Every woman has a price. They just say they aren't about pay to screen out undesirable men. If you gave them the impression that you were good looking, warm, and you had a good job...they will come after you for money, gifts, whatever.

[tikikaboom]

I am certain I will get flamed and that's ok. 

 

I am new to the board and am puzzled.  I hear in the chat room (which could use some improvements) that the ladies are tired of being treated like a piece of meat by the men on the site.  That all the ladies are not pay for play, and I respect that.

 

But shortly after beginning an offline conversation, I am getting hit up for money/gifts/whatever.  Maybe it is just me? 

 

But I am more than open for advice here and am seriously asking for help. 

 

Ladies, I am all ears..... well, almost.   

 

Mond

Every woman has a price. They just say they aren't about pay to screen out undesirable men. If you gave them the impression that you were good looking, warm, and you had a good job...they will come after you for money, gifts, whatever.

I beg to differ; every woman does not have a price; every woman does not see herself as a commodity. The qualities I seek have nothing to do with material wealth. Instead, I prefer someone with intelligence, compassion and emotional depth; these qualities are much more difficult to find that a man with a job. The only thing I am concerned about with regard to what a man does for a living, is that he finds fulfillment in his choice of occupation. Bless.

[Guest]

I agree Tiki.

 

Problem is that the hot/intelligent/beautiful TS here think that we are punters.

[shiera]

I am certain I will get flamed and that's ok. 

 

I am new to the board and am puzzled.  I hear in the chat room (which could use some improvements) that the ladies are tired of being treated like a piece of meat by the men on the site.  That all the ladies are not pay for play, and I respect that.

 

But shortly after beginning an offline conversation, I am getting hit up for money/gifts/whatever.  Maybe it is just me? 

 

But I am more than open for advice here and am seriously asking for help. 

 

Ladies, I am all ears..... well, almost.   

 

Mond

Every woman has a price. They just say they aren't about pay to screen out undesirable men. If you gave them the impression that you were good looking, warm, and you had a good job...they will come after you for money, gifts, whatever.

Price is to the girls who doing escort work . But pride is to those who are looking for the best and genuine man . It's hardly to find this kind of men here in this site ..

 

I believe there must be a reason why the girls asking for those things in the same way the boys asking for sex cam/chat .. Intelligent girl won't show themself naked for nothing ..

 

As part of my experiences , i tried to have a conversation with some boys here unfortunately they were just interested to talk about sex instead of curios to see what i have between my leg ...

 

What are you missing is , try to go for the girl who are not doing escort and try to find those who are really looking for love .. And to you yourself , try to not asking about sex cam or sex chat / talk or nude pic and prove to the girl tht you are genuine for love .. It might be work !!!

 

Even you yourself had tried to talk to me instead of you are already know why i'm here and my status ..

 

 

P.s : by the way there are too many of people in here who love to waste a time .. just be prudent !!!

 

[tikikaboom]

I agree Tiki.

 

Problem is that the hot/intelligent/beautiful TS here think that we are punters.

What is a punter?

 

Perhaps you should consider engaging with women who are intelligent and maybe not so hot and beautiful? Most guys could care less about anything other than looks. I am constantly and forever amazed at the things a guy will put up with for a pretty face. Some of y'all need to dig deeper.

[User701]

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I beg to differ; every woman does not have a price; every woman does not see herself as a commodity.  The qualities I seek have nothing to do with material wealth.  Instead, I prefer someone with intelligence, compassion and emotional depth; these qualities are much more difficult to find that a man with a job.  The only thing I am concerned about with regard to what a man does for a living, is that he finds fulfillment in his choice of occupation.  Bless.

There's a misunderstanding here. I did not imply every woman sees their self as a commodity. I was giving the opposite impression; that every woman would like to see themselves as a high end luxury item. There wasn't any mention of material posessions, just a "good job" which usually means a job with a certain amount of status. It all comes down to expectations. There are women with low expectations but they're not who I was discussing. I was talking about women, usually well educated , who are holding for a man who is equally well-educated and sucessful, if not more.

[Guest]

transsexuals are the people who have struggled to live theyre lives coz of the judging eyes of the people asian transsexuals have to work as sex workers or cam girls to provide for theyre needs in life support themselves hormones and beauty regiments and practices the crab mentality of people on different sectors of the government gives us a hard time to find for a good paying job just becouse the papers stated ur a male and whats in between of ur legs....thast why transsexual girls use theyre body and beauty and the inteligence that was built thru time to survive all the difficulties in life if u want a transsexual who wants just love and sex then thast very stupid of you! true we wanna be loved and we dreamed of falling inlove but ofcourse we want security a guy who can take care of us a man who can support us a man who can help take us away from escorting or cam job a man who can give us a good life!....we dont wanna get back on the mudpit where we started we established ourselves to be who we are now.....then ur gonna throw us the word that im gonna love u.....then sex sex sex sex....we can love u yes we can do that...honest sincere loyalty and everything....but make sure u can take care of us provide for us.....becouse its what we need.....love cant feed anyone....love loses its meaning when in the end of the day u wake up and ur stomach is in need of food....or u dont have any new clothes to wear or a shelter to sleep on.,..so if u want a ts who dont look for money....THEN DATE AND FIND RICH TRANSSEXUALS WHO DONT NEED IT...DONT LONG FOR ASIANS WHO LIVE IN 3RD WORLD COUNTRY WHO HAVE TO SELL THEMSELVES TO EAT....life is hard here in asia and girls here learn from what time did....

[User701]

ASIANS WHO LIVE IN 3RD WORLD COUNTRY

What part of asia is a third world country? Everyone who has enough money to invest, is investing in asia.

[User701]

I agree Tiki.

 

Problem is that the hot/intelligent/beautiful TS here think that we are punters.

What is a punter?

 

I am constantly and forever amazed at the things a guy will put up with for a pretty face. Some of y'all need to dig deeper.

Some men(usually unattractive) feel as though their whole self-worth is built on being with a beautiful woman. Next question.

[tikikaboom]

transsexuals are the people who have struggled to live theyre lives coz of the judging eyes of the people asian transsexuals have to work as sex workers or cam girls to provide for theyre needs in life support themselves hormones and beauty regiments and practices the crab mentality of people on different sectors of the government gives us a hard time to find for a good paying job just becouse the papers stated ur a male and whats in between of ur legs....thast why transsexual girls use theyre body and beauty and the inteligence that was built thru time to survive all the difficulties in life if u want a transsexual who wants just love and sex then thast very stupid of you! true we wanna be loved and we dreamed of falling inlove but ofcourse we want security a guy who can take care of us a man who can support us a man who can help take us away from escorting or cam job a man who can give us a good life!....we dont wanna get back on the mudpit where we started we established ourselves to be who we are now.....then ur gonna throw us the word that im gonna love u.....then sex sex sex sex....we can love u yes we can do that...honest sincere loyalty and everything....but make sure u can take care of us provide for us.....becouse its what we need.....love cant feed anyone....love loses its meaning when in the end of the day u wake up and ur stomach is in need of food....or u dont have any new clothes to wear or a shelter to sleep on.,..so if u want a ts who dont look for money....THEN DATE AND FIND RICH TRANSSEXUALS WHO DONT NEED IT...DONT LONG FOR ASIANS WHO LIVE IN 3RD WORLD COUNTRY WHO HAVE TO SELL THEMSELVES TO EAT....life is hard here in asia and girls here learn from what time did....

Brava! Brava! IvyForbidden! Excellent post!! Most of the men never take into consideration that in some (most?) countries it is almost impossible for transsexual women to find employment. The reason so many find themselves in the sex industry is no accident. Many guys travel to those countries just to take advantage of those unfair practices. The selfishly satisfy their urges and then head back to their cushy little lives unscathed. I honestly wonder how some of them look at themselves in the mirror.

 

"If you're not part of the solution, then you are part of the problem."

[tikikaboom]

ASIANS WHO LIVE IN 3RD WORLD COUNTRY

What part of asia is a third world country? Everyone who has enough money to invest, is investing in asia.

You can't be serious?

[tikikaboom]

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I beg to differ; every woman does not have a price; every woman does not see herself as a commodity.  The qualities I seek have nothing to do with material wealth.  Instead, I prefer someone with intelligence, compassion and emotional depth; these qualities are much more difficult to find that a man with a job.  The only thing I am concerned about with regard to what a man does for a living, is that he finds fulfillment in his choice of occupation.  Bless.

There's a misunderstaning here. I did not imply every woman sees their self as an commodity. I was giving the opposite impression; that every woman would like to see themselves as a high end luxury item. There wasn't any mention of material posessions, just a "good job" which usually means a job with a certain amount of status. It all comes down to expectations. There are women with low expectations but they're not who I was discussing. I was talking about women, usually well educated , who are holding for a man who is equally well-educated and sucessful, if not more.

"A high-end luxury item?" Again, with this statement, you've turned women into objects. I don't consider nor desire to be a high-end luxury nuthin'! Just a simple human being is all, my darling. Who are you dating? LOL!

[AsianBabesShemale]

Thanks for explaining it well sis IVYFORBIDDEN and TIKKI.

 

Guys,men,gentlemen you all should know that we as a transexuall most of you should know that we do need care and attention they said IF MAN NEEDS ASSURANCE,WOMAN NEEDS SECURITY and so we DO NEED BOTH.!!

Why dont you guys do a survey about how many guys we had share our life with and how many promises we expect that nothing happen, and imagine it that it was you in our shoes.

 

Do you think that basing our experience will make us reach our goals,if we just keep believing with those guys promises i bet we will not be able to achieve the goal that we really want in our life.

 

In my life i did had 4bf's.and all of them do nothing while i am hoping,I was all broke and was all alone.And where are they..?UNDER THE SKIRT OF THEIR MOM HIDING.!!!

 

Well why dont u do this,If you think u can live with us for ever,then do it.But if you think you cannot really do it.!!!Then hire a escort STOPPED ANY BULLSHITT PAY SEXX THEN LEAVE....very easy....

Life is purely fun why make some shittt....what you do bad no one knows how it will come back to you but forsure it will,just better be good:-)

[dreamguy]

transsexuals are the people who have struggled to live theyre lives coz of the judging eyes of the people asian transsexuals have to work as sex workers or cam girls to provide for theyre needs in life support themselves hormones and beauty regiments and practices the crab mentality of people on different sectors of the government gives us a hard time to find for a good paying job just becouse the papers stated ur a male and whats in between of ur legs....thast why transsexual girls use theyre body and beauty and the inteligence that was built thru time to survive all the difficulties in life if u want a transsexual who wants just love and sex then thast very stupid of you! true we wanna be loved and we dreamed of falling inlove but ofcourse we want security a guy who can take care of us a man who can support us a man who can help take us away from escorting or cam job a man who can give us a good life!....we dont wanna get back on the mudpit where we started we established ourselves to be who we are now.....then ur gonna throw us the word that im gonna love u.....then sex sex sex sex....we can love u yes we can do that...honest sincere loyalty and everything....but make sure u can take care of us provide for us.....becouse its what we need.....love cant feed anyone....love loses its meaning when in the end of the day u wake up and ur stomach is in need of food....or u dont have any new clothes to wear or a shelter to sleep on.,..so if u want a ts who dont look for money....THEN DATE AND FIND RICH TRANSSEXUALS WHO DONT NEED IT...DONT LONG FOR ASIANS WHO LIVE IN 3RD WORLD COUNTRY WHO HAVE TO SELL THEMSELVES TO EAT....life is hard here in asia and girls here learn from what time did....

oo talaga

 

omg mahal i can take care and provide for you but not all your distant relatives in the provence aswell = hindi

 

most kano will be happy to support you and you only but not the extended family

 

there are always two sides to most stories

 

its all about the pera anyway diba

[dreamguy]

Brava! Brava! IvyForbidden! Excellent post!! Most of the men never take into consideration that in some (most?) countries it is almost impossible for transsexual women to find employment. The reason so many find themselves in the sex industry is no accident. Many guys travel to those countries just to take advantage of those unfair practices. The selfishly satisfy their urges and then head back to their cushy little lives unscathed. I honestly wonder how some of them look at themselves in the mirror.

 

"If you're not part of the solution, then you are part of the problem."

"unfair practices" like what?

 

maybe you should be asking yourself what those ts in these countries would be doing for money if these tourists were not over there?

 

i am sure you dont have the solution for that and most ts in these countries are greatful for any money they can get

 

your comments are just ignorant of the REAL situation in countries where they dont have a welfare state

[shiera]

Here we go again .. Money !!!

 

 

oooo talaga .. walang pera walang mahal , diba ?

 

 

[tikikaboom]

Brava!  Brava!  IvyForbidden!  Excellent post!!  Most of the men never take into consideration that in some (most?) countries it is almost impossible for transsexual women to find employment.  The reason so many find themselves in the sex industry is no accident.  Many guys travel to those countries just to take advantage of those unfair practices.  The selfishly satisfy their urges and then head back to their cushy little lives unscathed.  I honestly wonder how some of them look at themselves in the mirror.

 

"If you're not part of the solution, then you are part of the problem."

"unfair practices" like what?

 

maybe you should be asking yourself what those ts in these countries would be doing for money if these tourists were not over there?

 

i am sure you dont have the solution for that and most ts in these countries are greatful for any money they can get

 

your comments are just ignorant of the REAL situation in countries where they dont have a welfare state

Instead of traveling to those countries to exploit the dire economic situations that exist there, why not make a real difference in someone's life? Make a true connection and help another human being to get OUT; help them to get an education? Instead of just hitting it and quitting it and satisfying your carnal desires, dig deeper and ask yourself what you can do to make a real difference. This is one way meaningful change will take place - there are others.

 

This is experience talking my darling; not ignorance; I had the chance to make a difference in someone's life and I took it! To this day, knowing that I was able to impact someone's life in a manner that allowed them to have hope and to survive in dignity is my greatest achievement. What contributions have you made towards positive change, dear dreamguy?

[tikikaboom]

transsexuals are the people who have struggled to live theyre lives coz of the judging eyes of the people asian transsexuals have to work as sex workers or cam girls to provide for theyre needs in life support themselves hormones and beauty regiments and practices the crab mentality of people on different sectors of the government gives us a hard time to find for a good paying job just becouse the papers stated ur a male and whats in between of ur legs....thast why transsexual girls use theyre body and beauty and the inteligence that was built thru time to survive all the difficulties in life if u want a transsexual who wants just love and sex then thast very stupid of you! true we wanna be loved and we dreamed of falling inlove but ofcourse we want security a guy who can take care of us a man who can support us a man who can help take us away from escorting or cam job a man who can give us a good life!....we dont wanna get back on the mudpit where we started we established ourselves to be who we are now.....then ur gonna throw us the word that im gonna love u.....then sex sex sex sex....we can love u yes we can do that...honest sincere loyalty and everything....but make sure u can take care of us provide for us.....becouse its what we need.....love cant feed anyone....love loses its meaning when in the end of the day u wake up and ur stomach is in need of food....or u dont have any new clothes to wear or a shelter to sleep on.,..so if u want a ts who dont look for money....THEN DATE AND FIND RICH TRANSSEXUALS WHO DONT NEED IT...DONT LONG FOR ASIANS WHO LIVE IN 3RD WORLD COUNTRY WHO HAVE TO SELL THEMSELVES TO EAT....life is hard here in asia and girls here learn from what time did....

oo talaga

 

omg mahal i can take care and provide for you but not all your distant relatives in the provence aswell = hindi

 

most kano will be happy to support you and you only but not the extended family

 

there are always two sides to most stories

 

its all about the pera anyway diba

Would you support them to become independent, or support them to keep them bound to you, your needs and desires?

[tikikaboom]

Brava!  Brava!  IvyForbidden!  Excellent post!!  Most of the men never take into consideration that in some (most?) countries it is almost impossible for transsexual women to find employment.  The reason so many find themselves in the sex industry is no accident.  Many guys travel to those countries just to take advantage of those unfair practices.  The selfishly satisfy their urges and then head back to their cushy little lives unscathed.  I honestly wonder how some of them look at themselves in the mirror.

 

"If you're not part of the solution, then you are part of the problem."

"unfair practices" like what?

 

maybe you should be asking yourself what those ts in these countries would be doing for money if these tourists were not over there?

 

i am sure you dont have the solution for that and most ts in these countries are greatful for any money they can get

 

your comments are just ignorant of the REAL situation in countries where they dont have a welfare state

Unfair practices like being denied the privilege to work.

[alyssaluxor]

ive never asked any material things tru chat to any guys and i even rejected offers from some guys who would like to send me money so i would chat with them.

 

but in the end as a TS girl i need to be careful even now im keeping in touch with some guys i feel some of them are shady and just want to play games with me. why are guys like these? arent there any serious guys there who are true gentleman and can give me genuine relationship??? im so fucking tired of all these bullshits from guys i should start asking for pay whenever guys chat with me because it seems all of them are just all bullshits lol

[Guest]

dreamguy i think u are offended by my sisters comment about " sex tourist " yeah i know how much u guys liek cheap sex on asian countries knowing a lot of u have to go here in asia for cheap sex, cheat on ur wife to satisfy ur discretion liking transexuals or gays....or simply u cannot get sex in your country.....yeah u may say coz of the pervertion of these tourist numbers of young poor kids see the older sisters, parents of them doing it thinking its the righht thing and easiest way to make a living...end of the day they have to stop school at a very early age to be a sex worker...producing 12 year old street prostitutes and 15 year old bargirls makeing pedophiles happy and makeing a lot of kids illiterate...i never supported sex tourism for what it does to youth....regarding to ur comment for " supporting the families" we filipinos are very family oriented, our parents never obligated us to work or make money becouse they raise us for that we ourselves the love we felt for them the sweat that we see everyday theyre suffering the pain that they have to face daily to have our mouth feed is enought for us to feel the love and the urge to make our parents just relax and rest and let us do the work and make theyre life comfortable....other thing is if u want the familys approval u should also court the family...we never obligate any men to do it but ofcourse im sure our parents dont want us to date a loser or a man who will just feed on our body and take advantage of it...parents never raised theyre kids to date other countries swine or should i call rejects...if i want swine and rejects then why should i look further....

 

being a transsexual is hard its never easy as if ur saying wer happy " TRANSSEXUALS are happy haveing sex tourist pigging and perving over them your wrong.....transsexuals do it for money for food for shelter for beauty...transexuals are so smart enought to fear aids and std but they have no choice becouse no company is accepting them to have a good job...even if u finish a highly educated and passed on a well known school no one would take u as a seriously coz YOURE A TRANSEXUAL...the world is stupid i hate to admit it but i can just make a planet only for lgbt community i will.....no ts is a lawyer even if they finish law school no ts doctor even if a lot finished law no ts is an engineer even if they finish engineering....among lgbt we are the most who are suffering...gays can do whatever they cant coz they dress manly and they can have theyre hair cut with no wuestion at all...while they see us as freaks and underestimate our capability of working....here in philippines i have seen many transsexuals/escorts/camgirls streetworkers have changed theyre life once they found a man who helped them change theyre life....they left the job becouse they know that that job is a nightmare...they finished school a lot established business of theyre own have theyre own family and join beauty pageants all over the place, travel the world and try to educate people who knows less using beauty pageants about us...no we never like selling our body we just dont have a choice...but once we have a way to escape it we will escape it....and never gonna look bad to it

 

mabuhay to all my transisters be proud of who you are and always put a smile on ur face even if lifes difficult...its never easy

 

and applause to all the transsexual lovers who are there and proud to post theyre pictures here becouse of u guys we continue what we are fighting for....

 

and girls always remember: BEAUTIFULL GIRLS KNOWS WHAT THEY WANT AND CAN DEMAND FOR IT"

 

 

[tikikaboom]

dreamguy i think u are offended by my sisters comment about " sex tourist " yeah i know how much u guys liek cheap sex on asian countries knowing a lot of u have to go here in asia for cheap sex, cheat on ur wife to satisfy ur discretion liking transexuals or gays....or simply u cannot get sex in your country.....yeah u may say coz of the pervertion of these tourist numbers of young poor kids see the older sisters, parents of them doing it thinking its the righht thing and easiest way to make a living...end of the day they have to stop school at a very early age to be a sex worker...producing 12 year old street prostitutes and 15 year old bargirls makeing pedophiles happy and makeing a lot of kids illiterate...i never supported sex tourism for what it does to youth....regarding to ur comment for " supporting the families" we filipinos are very family oriented, our parents never obligated us to work or make money becouse they raise us for that we ourselves the love we felt for them the sweat that we see everyday theyre suffering the pain that they have to face daily to have our mouth feed is enought for us to feel the love and the urge to make our parents just relax and rest and let us do the work and make theyre life comfortable....other thing is if u want the familys approval u should also court the family...we never obligate any men to do it but ofcourse im sure our parents dont want us to date a loser or a man who will just feed on our body and take advantage of it...parents never raised theyre kids to date other countries swine or should i call rejects...if i want swine and rejects then why should i look further....

 

being a transsexual is hard its never easy as if ur saying wer happy " TRANSSEXUALS are happy haveing sex tourist pigging and perving over them your wrong.....transsexuals do it for money for food for shelter for beauty...transexuals are so smart enought to fear aids and std but they have no choice becouse no company is accepting them to have a good job...even if u finish a highly educated and passed on a well known school no one would take u as a seriously coz YOURE A TRANSEXUAL...the world is stupid i hate to admit it but i can just make a planet only for lgbt community i will.....no ts is a lawyer even if they finish law school no ts doctor even if a lot finished law no ts is an engineer even if they finish engineering....among lgbt we are the most who are suffering...gays can do whatever they cant coz they dress manly and they can have theyre hair cut with no wuestion at all...while they see us as freaks and underestimate our capability of working....here in philippines i have seen many transsexuals/escorts/camgirls streetworkers have changed theyre life once they found a man who helped them change theyre life....they left the job becouse they know that that job is a nightmare...they finished school a lot established business of theyre own have theyre own family and join beauty pageants all over the place, travel the world and try to educate people who knows less using beauty pageants about us...no we never like selling our body we just dont have a choice...but once we have a way to escape it we will escape it....and never gonna look bad to it

 

mabuhay to all my transisters be proud of who you are and always put a smile on ur face even if lifes difficult...its never easy

 

and applause to all the transsexual lovers who are there and proud to post theyre pictures here becouse of u guys we continue what we are fighting for....

 

and girls always remember: BEAUTIFULL GIRLS KNOWS WHAT THEY WANT AND CAN DEMAND FOR IT"

Brava Miss Ivy!! BRAVA!!

[dreamguy]

ive never asked any material things tru chat to any guys and i even rejected offers from some guys who would like to send me money so i would chat with them.

 

but in the end as a TS girl i need to be careful even now im keeping in touch with some guys i feel some of them are shady and just want to play games with me. why are guys like these? arent there any serious guys there who are true gentleman and can give me genuine relationship??? im so fucking tired of all these bullshits from guys i should start asking for pay whenever guys chat with me because it seems all of them are just all bullshits lol 

you could say the same about many ts who chat with guys on the internet aswell

 

bola bola is the norm on the net anyway

[dreamguy]

Here we go again .. Money !!!

 

 

oooo talaga .. walang pera walang mahal , diba ?

walang pera dito lolz